Quotes from RJ Intindola

A wise man listens to gain knowledge and not to debate.

A wise man waits until everyone else has spoken.

Action and malice that contradicts the conscience will result in irreparable damage and pain that could linger for years.

Avoid constantly trying to adapt to situations, people, and other circumstances that have no value to your future. The phenomenon of always attempting to please and alter behavior is more likely to be unsuccessful then to enhance your life. Adapt by continuing to learn and improve your knowledge

Be careful not to fall in love with the fantasy you imagined instead of what's standing before you.

Be the person people remember because you made them feel special.

Beauty is seen through the eyes, but beautiful people are only known through your heart.

Before deciding on a decision, determine how well you are willing to live with it.

Being a great leader requires several attributes. Leadership includes both rewarding and difficult attributes. You must possess the strength to make tough decisions that may isolate you for a period. And yet, have empathy and understanding of others. You must be able to listen to alternatives regarding your decisions and seriously consider them. If you practice from both a standpoint of strength and compassion, people may not always agree with your decisions, but they will respect you.

Beware of people that envy you.

Courageous people begin the journey knowing only the destination.

Disassociate with people that criticize you. Avoid them at all costs and act indifferent in their presence. At some point they may ask you what's wrong, and you need to speak the truth.

Do not humiliate, disrespect or embarrass; always speak with a soft tongue when holding your ground. To be loud, rude and obnoxious will negate the argument and advantage. And truth is always mandatory.

Don't be afraid to burn a bridge you never want to cross again.

Don't ever let yourself become a fool to your loyalty.

Don't wait until regrets are your only option, make the changes and act before it's too late.

Each time our heart is broken, we should learn a lesson and not repeat the same mistakes. However, often there is nothing we could have done to save the relationship.

Every human being on earth has two things in common. Death and a broken heart.

Every so often deliberately participate in inappropriate behavior, but don't tell anyone. In this way, your public persona shall remain intact.

Everybody loves and desires success, but they dislike and are envious of successful people.

Fake people can be silenced with truth.

Fate controls who walks into your life, but you decide who leaves, stays, and who you refuse to let go. Who stays depends on the bindings between you.

For the most part, people live their normal lives. Except when at parties, in a group or away from home, then a different person emerges.

Friendship is rooted in the protection of deep dark secrets.