Quotes from Matt Morris

People are usually more accepting of people who smile because it makes you look more fun, friendly, and easy to talk to.

Although, generally speaking, it is best NOT to compliment people on their physical features (unless you are completely genuine) because people will often see it as though you just want something from them–and it is often interpreted as you either want to sell them something or have sex with them. However, if that is your intention, go ahead and compliment them on their physical features (as long as you are genuine about it and mean what you say).

were distracted by something and lost train of your thought because you weren't in the present moment. Maybe you just couldn't think of anything interesting, funny, or entertaining to say.

People are drawn to others with positive energy. Why? Naturally, people feel better around people who can see the good in situations as opposed

That's a cool hat. Where did you buy it? 2. I like your shoes. Where did you get them? 3. I like your necklace (or jewelry). Where did you get it? 4. I like your energy. You seem very fun and spontaneous (or something you sense

opposed to the negative things. They bring comfort and optimism to situations.

One of the best ways to tell a story is to add emotion to it.  I must admit that it's generally easier for women to do this than men. But

Create 3 or 4 stories that include the 10 steps above. If you already have a few stories, improve on them and make sure they have the 10 steps in them.

There are two sides to every coin, just as there are two sides to every situation in life. Therefore, you have the option of choosing to see the negative or choosing to see the positive.

The first step in trying to get into a positive state of mind should be to smile and think of a funny thought. Another

Another quick tip would be to change the word tone from a negative frame to a positive one. I

Then, select which things were effective in the conversation, and which things you can toss out the window.

Any subject that displays inequality or may promote discrimination

Instead of saying, "That's an ugly shirt. Why are you wearing that?", find one thing you like about it–maybe the color, maybe the way it fits the person, maybe how pressed it is, maybe the texture–then begin with that. You could say, "Cool shirt. What's that about?" The point is to find and focus on the positives, as opposed to the negatives of any situation.

Instead of saying, "This party sucks," you can say, "What do you think of this party?" It'll give the other person an opportunity to open up to you.

Have a clear purpose in mind. Why do you want to talk to this person?

You're absolutely gorgeous. What's your name?

Step 10: Whenever you go to meetings, parties, or social gatherings (including coffee shops or busy streets) make it a routine or habit to introduce yourself to at least three people. This will get you comfortable talking to strangers, and over time you will meet some amazing people and form incredible relationships.

We all love emotionally stimulating conversations–ones

Always begin a conversation with "Hi," "Hey," or "Hello." This will lower the other person's protective shield.

stimulating conversations–ones that make us laugh so hard that it feels like we just completed an extreme abdominal workout, ones that

encourage you to go out and do it because knowledge is useless unless you put it into action.

Always remember that communication involves listening, understanding, and observing–not just speaking.

Your tone of voice, body language, and the energy that you bring are the most important parts when starting a conversation. Each