Quotes from Warren Farrell

The problem is that Americans care more about saving whales than saving males.

I define power as control over ones life. A balanced life is far superior to the male definition of power: earning money someone else spends while he dies sooner.

When a man is able to connect with his feelings, he is able to care more.

Financial analysts make a lot more than accountants.

Men are fair, and they have learned not to personalize anger - they can disagree with you and argue to the bone, but afterward they still consider you a nice person with whom the underlying human relationship need not be altered.

It evolved from my experience in the fifties, growing up during the McCarthy era, and hearing a lot of assumptions that America was wonderful and Communism was terrible.

One danger of a man succeeding is that it teaches his wife and daughter not to worry about success.

Throughout my life I have always been amazed that people couldn't listen to other people, that they couldn't hear their best intent, that there seemed to be an enormous need to demonize.

I define power as control over one's life. Pay is not about power. Pay is about giving up power to get the power of pay.

To me, God is the accumulated wisdom I've gathered throughout my life. When I pay attention, my body gives me a printout of this wisdom.

The women themselves say they're far more likely to care about flexibility. The men say, 'I'm far more likely to care about money.'

Those who call me an opportunist are following the old rule: If you can't attack the data, attack the person.

The male corporate model is built on a man's greater willingness to be a slave of sorts - especially once he has to provide for children.

I definitely agree with choices for women, but I do not agree with choices for women when they eliminate choices for men. Rather, I think that the sexes need to make choices that lead to the maximum amount of win-win for both sexes.

The more the father is involved, the more easily the child makes open, receptive, and trusting contact with new people in its life.

Every movement has radicals. But the important thing is that the radicals are not the leaders.

All women's issues are to some degree men's issues and all men's issues are to some degree women's issues because when either sex wins unilaterally both sexes lose.

Sometimes I have a feeling, when I look back on my life, that all I've been through has prepared me perfectly for just what I'm doing now.

Choosing safety is a choice of life over career.

Men rarely worry about using or being used because all relationships work that way. A man perceives himself as owning and being owned by a woman. 'Use' is a dirty word only when there's an imbalance in the relationship.

If a man belittles a woman, it could become a lawsuit. If women belittle men, it's a Hallmark card.

Women and men look at their life, and women say, 'What do I need? Do I need more money, or do I need more time?' And women are intelligent enough to say, 'I need more time.' And so, women lead balanced lives; men should be learning from women.

For blacks in our society, victimization may be a true issue. But it isn't a true issue for women. Neither men nor women are victimized. The true issue, that I try to point out, is that both sexes suffer restricted roles.

Our main reasons for fearing males having sex with males is that you really had to construct a more powerful social role to keep men in their place than you did to keep women in their place.