Quotes from Jason Evert

Don't be impressed by the fact a guy doesn't pressure you. He doesn't get any points for that. It's his duty as a gentleman.

A girl is supposed to be able to admire her dad and compare all other guys to him. This helps to weed out troublesome guys because the daughter will know how she ought to be treated.

How do you build self-esteem? You get it by making smart decisions, surviving painful moments, and coming out a stronger woman. For starters, dump anyone who doesn't treat you with respect and avoid such guys in the future...Every time you walk away from the counterfeits of love you get one step closer to the real thing.

Just as a man is seduced through his eyes, women are often seduced through their ears. Some guys can be so smooth with their words that a woman will forget his actions.

Faithfulness is not just about your body. If you have committed to a person, then you have committed to them as a person. This implies the fidelity of your eyes, your heart, your imagination, your speech, your intentions, and all that makes you up as a person....The real value of love is proved by being 100 percent faithful.

Purity is not about seeing less of the body, but about seeing more of the person.

Don't ignore your conscience or give up on the deepest desires of your heart. If you're in an unhealthy relationship, get out. Don't squander your life trying to change a guy or hoping he will miraculously improve. You're better than that.

Sex doesn't help you to get to know a guy. It clouds your judgment and often causes unmarried couples to think they have more in common than they really do. If they do marry, their lack of compatibility often comes to the surface later....One of the blessings of purity is that it brings such faults to the surface sooner rather than later.

Dios, ¿no tengo necesidades y derechos?». Dios le habló a su corazón diciéndole: «Sí, tienes derechos. Tienes derecho a que todo se trate de ti. Tienes derecho a satisfacer tus necesidades. Tienes derecho a no ser heroico. Tienes todo el derecho de no convertirte en un santo».

Love is expressed most perfectly through sacrifice, and this is why you will never find a real love story that lacks it.

Purity also offers you a new lens through which you view life. Not only are you more able to see God with the eyes of faith, you're also more able to see Him in others....Wouldn't it be nice not only to see God in a boyfriend, but know that your boyfriend sees God in you?

The age at which a man begins using drugs or alcohol to deal with life's problems is the emotional age at which he remains.

the person who is working is always more important than the work the person is doing.

It could be said that he didn't make time to enter prayer. Rather, he made time for the sake of others to come out of it.

But just like one's conscience, a woman's intuition can be dulled if she persistently disregards it. Have you ever noticed that we often regret ignoring our intuition but we never seem to regret listening to it.?

The real question is: How many men have the maturity and courage to lead you closer to heaven? If he does not have that quality, then you have no business dating him.

When you hold fast to your morals while dating, you'll also notice the relationships often end of a different note. If a guy is in agreement with your standards but things end up working out between you, the end doesn't taste as bitter. It's easier to let go. Stick to your standards, because if a woman needs to lower her morals in order to find love, then it is not love that she has found.

No matter how perfect a man seems at first, he'll eventually get on your nerves. If you hope to establish lasting love, you must learn to love beyond the feelings.

If your relationship with God is secondary to your relationship with a man, the human relationship can grow into an idol. It will reign over your heart and dictate your level of happiness. Not only is this unfair to the man, it will ultimately end in disappointment. For things to run more smoothly, put God first and let Him worry about the rest.

When women begin to doubt or ignore the voice of their conscience, they become their own worst enemies. They then even wonder why love seems so elusive.

It is necessary to understand the soul of the woman. All these things, which are meant to liberate the woman: premarital sex, contraception and abortion, have they liberated her or have they enslaved her?

If you want a true man, you need to know what one looks like. For starters, a guy cannot be considered a man unless he treats a woman with dignity. When a boy learns how to forget himself for the good of another, he becomes a man. This transition does not occur at puberty; it comes when he learns the meaning of sacrifice.

You could see that he physically was there, but one could sense that he was immersed in the love of the Lord. They were united in talking to each other.

But if you hope to find real love, look for a guy who has morals, not one who simply tolerates them.