Quotes from Miguel Ruiz

It was right that Dhara should be the one to lead the journey. She was the one who had sought him out, who had emerged from his sleeping dreams into his waking reality. She was a woman he could walk with. She was his woman, and her lifelong happiness was at stake.

Your opinion is nothing but your point of view. It is not necessarily true. Your opinion comes from your beliefs, your own ego, and your own dream.

right woman, the right man? Someone who wants to go in the same direction as you do, someone who is compatible with your views and your values — emotionally, physically, economically, spiritually.

Hemos acordado que hacer preguntas es peligroso, y que la gente que nos ama debería saber qué queremos o cómo nos sentimos. Cuando creemos algo, suponemos que tenemos razón hasta el punto de llegar a destruir nuestras relaciones para defender nuestra posición.

todo el concepto de pecado deja de ser algo moral o religioso para convertirse en una cuestión de puro sentido común.

Cuando creemos algo, suponemos que tenemos razón hasta el punto de llegar a destruir nuestras relaciones para defender nuestra posición.

A menudo, cuando inicias una relación con alguien que te gusta, tienes que justificar por qué te gusta. Sólo ves lo que quieres ver y niegas que algunos aspectos de esa persona te disgustan. Te mientes a ti mismo con el único fin de sentir que tienes razón. Después haces suposiciones, y una de ellas es: «Mi amor cambiará a esta persona». Pero no es verdad. Tu amor no cambiará a nadie. Si las personas cambian es porque quieren

Selfishness, control, and fear will break almost any relationship. Generosity, freedom, and love will create the most beautiful relationship: an ongoing romance.

What you are seeing and hearing right now is nothing but a dream. You are dreaming right now in this moment. You are dreaming with the brain awake.

You don't need to change the world; you need to change yourself.

You don't need to justify your love, you don't need to explain your love, you just need to practice your love. Practice creates the master.

If others tell us something we make assumptions, and if they don't tell us something we make assumptions to fulfill our need to know and to replace the need to communicate. Even if we hear something and we don't understand we make assumptions about what it means and then believe the assumptions. We make all sorts of assumptions because we don't have the courage to ask questions.

I will no longer allow anyone to manipulate my mind and control my life in the name of love.

Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness and drama.

Whenever we hear an opinion and believe it, we make an agreement, and it becomes part of our belief system.

And what is the right woman, the right man? Someone who wants to go in the same direction as you do, someone who is compatible with your views and your values-- emotionally, physically, economically, spiritually.

Nothing that your partner does is personal. Your partner is dealing with her own garbage. If you don't take it personally, it will be so easy for you to have a wonderful relationship with your partner

the real mission you have in life is to make yourself happy, and in order to be happy, you have to look at what you believe, the way you judge yourself, the way you victimize yourself

Humans hardly know what they want, how they want it, or when they want it.