Quotes from Jay Wiseman

A pervert is anybody kinkier than you are

The dividing line between SM sex and "vanilla" sex can sometimes be arbitrary.

Learning how to do SM is like learning how to have sex all over again.

Just because you're a slave to your lover in the bedroom doesn't mean you have to be a slave to him in the rest of your life.

when other-motivated people (no previous SM desires or fantasies) are offered a safe chance to experience it, their reaction will put them into one of three groups with about equal frequency.