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Quotes About Grief

I'd assumed Jack's death was the worst that I could endure. Matthew might have been preparing me for both of their murders. Dear
~ Kresley Cole
Grandma Redbird: Honey, you have to move past this. Zoey: How Grandma? Grandma Redbird: By living the life she'd be proud of you for living.
~ Kristin Cast
A daughter without her mother is a woman broken. It is a loss that turns to arthritis and settles deep into her bones.
~ Kristin Hannah
I know that grief, like regret, settles into our DNA and remains forever a part of us.
~ Kristin Hannah
to console the girl for the loss of her feathered friend.
~ L. Frank Baum
I think we all experience the same thing. We resent the thought that anything can please us when someone we love is no longer here to share the pleasure with us, and we almost feel as if we were unfaithful to our sorrow when we find our interest in life returning to us.
~ L. M. Montgomery
The bitterest kind of heartache—the ache that burns and gnaws and cannot wash itself away in ready tears.
~ L. M. Montgomery
Grief is not very different from illness: in the impetus of its fire it does not recognise lords, it does not fear colleagues, it does not respect or spare anyone, not even itself.
~ Eleanor of Aquitaine
The thing which grieves and oppresses my heart with respect to poor Scotland, is the hardness of heart manifest in the levity and cruelty with which they speak of others.
~ Edward Irving
There is nothing glamorous or romantic about war. It's mostly about random pointless death and misery.
~ Jon Krakauer
Though it may be more romantic to picture the bereaved as gaunt, I imagine you can grieve as efficiently with chocolates as with tap water.
~ Lionel Shriver
She could forgive him for missing their dinner date, but she would never forgive him for dying.
~ Chrys Fey, 30 Seconds
I will not say, do not weep, for not all tears are an evil.
~ J. R. R. Tolkien
So sad! This is the saddest part when you lose someone you love- that person keeps changing. And later you wonder, Is this the same person I lost?
~ Amy Tan
Even then, she still held a secret passion for Mozart. When he died in 1791, her grief made her provoke the people into starting the French Revolution. Stepping up to the guillotine herself, she ordered the executioner to behead her, thereby committing assisted suicide.
~ Yasutaka Tsutsui
Il diametro della bomba era di trenta centimetri e il diametro del suo raggio d'azione era di circa sette metri, con quattro morti e undici feriti... E non parliamo nemmeno del pianto degli orfani che si leva fino al trono di Dio e ben oltre, creando un creando un cerchio senza fine e senza Dio.
~ Yehuda Amichai
When the dead departed, they took away any falsehoods that they might have allowed us to believe while alive; we who are left behind have to embark on a different life, since the dead are no longer here to help us deceive ourselves.
~ Yiyun Li
Nabokov once answered a question he must have been tired of being asked: "My private tragedy, which cannot, indeed should not, be anybody's concern, is that I had to abandon my natural language." That something is called a tragedy, however, means it is no longer personal. One weeps out of private pain, but only when the audience swarms in to claim understanding and empathy do they call it tragedy. One's grief belongs to oneself; one's tragedy, to others.
~ Yiyun Li
But how do you speak to a granddaughter in her dead mother's stead? Can the responsibility to the dead ever be replaced by the responsibility to the living?
~ Yiyun Li
It is difficult for anyone to watch someone close suffer. The grief comes from not understanding the pain, and from knowing that suffering, even when it ends, will live on as memory. A child does not, and should not, understand her parents' memories, yet this incomprehension does not offer exemption. The child in every one of us carries the burden of memory's melodrama, not only our own, but those before our time.
~ Yiyun Li
and left. When the three children died in the same year she remained indifferent to Nikolai's loss. Worse than enduring a tyrannical parent is to be the favored child.
~ Yiyun Li
This piercing cold I feel:my dead wife's comb, in our bedroomunder my heel…
~ Yosa Buson
V?a nãy anh khóc là c? t??ng Nh?t L?c ?ã ch?t, bây gi? khóc là vì ?ã trông th?y Nh?t L?c v?n còn s?ng…
~ Yu Hua
Existences and events occurring without any relationship to myself, occurring at places that not only appealed to my senses but were moreover denied to me— these, together with the people involved in them, constituted my definition of "tragic things." It seemed that my grief at being eternally excluded was always transformed in my dreaming into grief for those persons and their ways of life, and that solely through my own grief I was trying to share in their existences.
~ Yukio Mishima