Quotes About Attachment

L]ove for a particular object is only the actualization and concentration of lingering love with regard to one person; it is not, as the idea of romantic love would have it, that there is only the one person in the world whom one can love, that it is the great chance of one's life to find that person, and that love for him results in withdrawal from all others.

Tüketime tutku derecesinde baÄŸl? olmak kiÅŸilerin kendi korkular?n? dengelemeye çal??malar?ndan baÅŸka bir ÅŸey deÄŸildir.

Es preciso pasar por toda una serie de experiencias de amor fallidas para no buscar inconscientemente en la pareja un eco del amor materno y paterno. Este tardío proceso de desvinculación del amor materno y paterno suele ir acompañado de dolorosas experiencias de renuncia y pérdida. Quien decide resolver un problema mediante el amor ha de tener valor suficiente para superar los desengaños y permanecer paciente a pesar de los reveses.

Du bist der einzige Mensch, den ich liebhatte, obwohl ich ihn kannte.

Love should not be polluted with friendship.

but that's what mankind is like: they only prize what they no longer possess.

Am I jealous? he thought, astonished. Jealous of the chance object to which she has attached herself? Jealous of something that does not concern me? One can be jealous of a love that has turned away, but not of that to which it has turned.

One lost easiest what one held in one's arms— never what one left.

Najlakše se gubi što se drži u ruci, nikad ono što se napušta.

cilv?ks tikai tad apzin?s, kas vi?am pieder?jis, kad tas sl?d no rok?m ?r?.

Ma il suo nome è un chiodo che si pianterà in me e non si potrà strappare mai più.

Personne ne peut t'être plus étranger que la personne que tu as aimée jadis.

M?l?t noz?m? - grib?t atdot otram to, ko nevar patur?t.

Es dom?ju, ka esmu tevi pazaudÄ"jis," teicu, turÄ"dams vi?u cieÅ¡i apskautu. "Tu mani nekad nepazaudÄ"si," vi?a ?ukstÄ"ja zem Å¡au­r?s maskas. "Un zini, k?d?? ne? T?d??, ka tu mani nekad negribi paturÄ"t tik cieÅ¡i k? zemnieks savu tÄ«rumu. TurpretÄ« viside?l?kais vÄ«rs k??st garlaicÄ«gs.

Nipošto nemoj dozovliti da se takne, govorio je Kester. Kada ti jednom nešto postane blisko, želiš i da ga zadržiš. A ništa ne može da se zadrži.

Ce qu'on laisse approcher, on veut le retenir. Et on ne peut rien retenir.

Kada nikoga ne voliš, lakše se podnosi samo?a.

Rado bih je pozvao telefonom, ali sam se prisilio da ne u?inim to. Hteo sam da ne mislim toliko na nju. Hteo sam da je primim kao neo?ekivani dar koji donosi sre?u, dar koji je došao i koji ?e oti?i, samo toliko i ništa više. Nisam hteo dopustiti da se u meni razvije misao da bi ovo moglo biti nešto više. Znao sam isuviše dobro da svaka ljubav nosi u sebi i želju za ve?noš?u. Otuda i njene ve?ite muke. Ne ostaje ništa. Ništa.

Un kas mums Ä«stenÄ«b? pieder? Kam tik daudz uz­traukties par liet?m, kuras lab?kaj? gadÄ«jum? dotas mums tikai uz zin?mu laiku; un kam tik daudz pr?tot par to, kuram m??otais cilvÄ"ks vair?k vai maz?k piederÄ"jis, ja iluzorais v?rds "piederÄ"t" nenozÄ«mÄ" neko vair?k k? — apskaut tukÅ¡u gaisu?

love dies slowly with me, if at all

You know my dislike for saying 'good-bye' and were prepared to find that I had skipped this morning. To say that i was sorry to leave you all is to put it only one half as strongly as I feel.

Relationship is thus always slavery of a kind, which leaves a residue of guilt.

Generally, the more anxious and insecure we are, the more we invest in these symbolic extensions of ourselves.

You belong to me and all Paris belongs to me and I belong to this notebook and this pencil.