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Quotes About Listening

Children become frustrated and resentful when they view their parents as not being interested "in how they feel and in their point of view.
~ Haim G. Ginott
They want us to understand what is going on inside them, what they are feeling at that particular moment.
~ Haim G. Ginott
People listened to whale songs, and politicians listened to the whale-song listening people and, then, finally, acted on the warnings of the population biologist Cassandras. The
~ Hal Whitehead
But we are not free until all of us are free. So love your neighbor. Please treat her kindly. Ask her her story, then shut up and listen. Black Asian poor wealthy Trans Cis Muslim Christian Listen. LISTEN. And then yell at the top of your lungs. Be a voice for all those who have prisoner tongues, for the people who had to grow up way too young, there is work to be done, there are songs to be sung, Lord knows there's a war to be won.
~ Halsey
Whenever you are willing to obey me, Much-Afraid, and to follow the path of my choice, you will always be able to hear and recognize my voice, and when you hear it you must always obey. Remember also that it is always safe to obey my voice, even if it seems to call you to paths which look impossible or even crazy.
~ Hannah Hurnard
That silence is one of the great arts of conversation is allowed by Cicero himself, who says, there is not only an art, but even an eloquence in it.
~ Hannah More
The word of God can require something of me today that it did not require yesterday; this means that, if I am to hear this challenge, I must be fundamentally open and listening.
~ Hans Urs von Balthasar
In this sense, the methodological form that comes into play here is ultimately quite simple: Scripture is interpreted by Scripture. Scripture interprets itself. Attentive listening to Scripture's own internal self-interpretation is very characteristic of Redemptoris Mater.
~ Hans Urs von Balthasar
What this country needs is more free speech worth listening to.
~ Hansell B. Duckett
We cannot understand without wanting to understand, that is, without wanting to let something be said...Understanding does not occur when we try to intercept what someone wants to say to us by claiming we already know it.
~ Hans-Georg Gadamer
Often the difference between a successful marriage and a mediocre one consists of leaving about three or four things a day unsaid.
~ Harlan Miller
Approach each session as an occasion to practice being with another without expectation.
~ Harold Dull
To listen with an open heart and ask questions to better help us understand the other person is a spiritual exercise, in the truest sense of the word.
~ Harriet Lerner
If only our passion to understand others were as great as our passion to be understood. Were this so, all our apologies would be truly meaningful and healing.
~ Harriet Lerner
We need to listen carefully to the wisdom of our symptoms and to try to decode their meaning, because some of us have learned to settle, to fall silent; to deny that unfair circumstances exist or matter, and then to call our compromises "life." But our bodies, our deeper unconscious selves, remain harder to fool.
~ Harriet Lerner
Moving in this direction requires us to clarify—to ourselves and others—what's important to us. Having an authentic voice means that: We can openly share competence as well as problems and vulnerability. We can warm things up and calm them down. We can listen and ask questions that allow us to truly know the other person and to gather information about anything that may affect us. We can say what we think and feel, state differences, and allow the
~ Harriet Lerner
Surely human consciousness would take a big leap forward if our wish to hear and understand were as great as our wish to be heard and understood.
~ Harriet Lerner
A marital therapist recently teased me, "Are you writing another book to help women speak up? I'm trying to help my clients be quiet." Then she said more seriously, "Why do people think they have to tell each other everything they feel?
~ Harriet Lerner
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~ Harriet Lerner
When we speak from the heart, we long for an ear to hear us, and we all have experienced that down feeling when we perceive ourselves as written off or misunderstood.
~ Harriet Lerner
When we believe we won't get through to the offending party, we often increase the intensity and lengthen our arguments. This does not help---and usually hurts. We may not recognize that our tone of voice or the sheer number of sentences may be the culprit.
~ Harriet Lerner, Ph.D.
I'm not a music lover in the sense that I look for something to have on. I've never had that attitude to music.
~ Harrison Birtwistle
Every prospect hopes you will heed the old New England proverb: "Don't talk unless you can improve the silence.
~ Harry Beckwith
Buzz and Dad are talking about a rugby player called Jones. I listen in for a while, but there seem to be at least four different Joneses in question, which seems excessive, even by Welsh standards.
~ Harry Bingham