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Quotes About Kindness

To hate another human being is to take a worm into one's own vitals. It consumes life.
~ Pearl S. Buck
I am always moved, with grateful wonder, by the goodness of people. For the few who are prying or meanly critical, for the very few who rejoice in the grief of others, there are the thousands who are kind. I have come to believe that the natural human heart is good, and I have observed that this goodness is found in all varieties of people, and that it can and does prevail in spite of other corruptions. This human goodness alone provides hope enough for the world. I have sometimes
~ Pearl S. Buck
Know thy neighbor as thyself. That is, comprehend his hardships and understand his position, deal with his faults as gently as with your own. Do not judge him where you do not judge yourself...this is the meaning of the word LOVE.
~ Pearl S. Buck
I am always moved, with grateful wonder, by the goodness of people. For the few who are prying or meanly critical, for the very few who rejoice in the grief of others, there are the thousands who are kind. I have come to believe that the natural human heart is good, and I have observed that this goodness is found in all varieties of people, and that it can and does prevail in spite of other corruptions. This human goodness alone provides hope enough for the world.
~ Pearl S. Buck
Can one spit on a smiling face?" he inquired; or he said, "Vengeance cannot last a night's sleep.
~ Pearl S. Buck
You see how loving kindness conquers fear, even in animals. Let this lesson be engraved upon your hearts.
~ Pearl S. Buck
Ah, because you have suffered is the one reason why you should never make others suffer," he had said. "Only the small and the mean retaliate for pain.
~ Pearl S. Buck
The truth is I cannot hate wholly enough to kill a man. I always know how he feels, too.
~ Pearl S. Buck
Honesty without kindness, humor, and goodheartedness can be just mean.
~ Pema Chodron
Don't let life harden your heart.
~ Pema Chodron
We can use our personal suffering as the path to compassion for all beings.
~ Pema Chodron
In a nutshell, when life is pleasant, think of others. When life is a burden, think of others.
~ Pema Chodron
Finally, never give up on yourself. Then you will never give up on others.
~ Pema Chodron
A much more interesting, kind, adventurous, and joyful approach to life is to begin to develop curiosity, not caring whether the object of our inquisitiviness is bitter or sweet.
~ Pema Chodron
If we are willing to stand fully in our own shoes and never give up on ourselves, then we will be able to put ourselves in the shoes of others and never give up on them.
~ Pema Chodron
Compassionate action starts with seeing yourself when you start to make yourself right and when you start to make yourself wrong. At that point you could just contemplate the fact that there is a larger alternative to either of those, a more tender, shaky kind of place where you could live.
~ Pema Chodron
What you do for yourself, any gesture of kindness, any gesture of gentleness, any gesture of honesty and clear seeing toward yourself, will affect how you experience your world. In fact, it will transform how you experience the world. What you do for yourself, you're doing for others, and what you do for others, you're doing for yourself.
~ Pema Chodron
I'd like to encourage us all to lighten up, to practice with a lot of gentleness. This is not the drill sergeant saying, "Lighten up or else." I have found that if we can possibly use anything we hear against ourselves, we usually do.
~ Pema Chodron
It is unconditional compassion for ourselves that leads naturally to unconditional compassion for others. If we are willing to stand fully in our own shoes and never give up on ourselves, then we will be able to put ourselves in the shoes of others and never give up on them. True compassion does not come from wanting to help out those less fortunate than ourselves but from realizing our kinship with all beings.
~ Pema Chodron
Bodhichitta is our heart—our wounded, softened heart. Right down there in the thick of things, we discover the love that will not die. This love is bodhichitta. It is gentle and warm; it is clear and sharp; it is open and spacious. The awakened heart of bodhichitta is the basic goodness of all beings.
~ Pema Chodron
You come back to that breath over and over, through boredom, edginess, fear, and well-being. This perseverance and repetition—when done with honesty, a light touch, humor, and kindness—is its own reward.
~ Pema Chodron
You should never have expectations for other people. Just be kind to them.
~ Pema Chodron
Practicing loving-kindness toward ourselves seems as good a way as any to start illuminating the darkness of difficult times.
~ Pema Chodron
I realized that it is these two things that staying with regrets offers: It can become the seed of compassion and empathy so that you can stand in the shoes of other people because you're feeling exactly what they feel. And it spurs you on to help people in the future rather than hurt them.
~ Pema Chodron