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Quotes About Intimacy

Even if you've taken off every stitch of clothing, you still have your secrets, your history, your true name. It's hard to be really naked. You have to work hard at it. Just getting into a bath isn't being naked, not really. It's just showing skin.
~ Catherynne M. Valente
I looked at this man and thought: Oh, how we are going to hurt each other.
~ Catherynne M. Valente
To touch a person...to sleep with a person...is to become a pioneer," she whispered then, "a frontiersman at the edge of their private world, the strange, incomprehensible world of their interior, filled with customs you could never imitate, a language which sounds like your own but is really totally foreign, knowable only to them.
~ Catherynne M. Valente
The smell of loving is a difficult one to describe, but if you think of the times when someone has held you close and made you safe, you will remember how it smells just as well as I do.
~ Catherynne M. Valente
Husbands lie, Masha. I should know; I've eaten my share. That's lesson one. Lesson number two: among the topics about which a husband is most likely to lie are money, drink, black eyes, political affiliation, and women who squatted on his lap before and after your sweet self.
~ Catherynne M. Valente
I will see him with his skin off before I agree to fall in love.
~ Catherynne M. Valente
When I saw him I thought I could curl up inside him and go to sleep and never wake up." "Men are no good for that, Masha. They'll always want you working, when you're not softening their fall into bed at the end of the day.
~ Catherynne M. Valente
I ate all of my husbands. First I ate their love, then their will, then their despair, and then I made pies of their bodies - and those bodies were so dear to me!
~ Catherynne M. Valente
This is my heart—carry it with you. I will dream of you in the dark, and you will taste it in my tea, and feel it in my shoes.
~ Catherynne M. Valente
What mirrors we are, set to face each other, reflecting desire.
~ Catherynne M. Valente
Let us be greedy together; let us hoard. Let us hit each other with birch branches and lock each other in dungeons; let us drink each other's blood in the night and betray each other in the sun. Let us lie and lust and take hundreds of lovers; let us dance until snow melts between us. Let us steal and eat until we grow fat and roll in the pleasures of life, clutching each other for purchase.
~ Catherynne M. Valente
I still want to kiss you. To feel the life in you seize on the life in me. Raw and fresh and new.
~ Catherynne M. Valente
Why should I care about you first kiss,' he said. 'You can kiss anyone you like. But sometimes if you wanted to kiss me, that would be all right, too.
~ Catherynne M. Valente
Respect me. Be proud, and if you love me, a little afraid, because love so often looks like fear. We are alike. We are alike.
~ Catherynne M. Valente
Men, they feel nothing like what we must endure. You have to make room in yourself for him, and that is the same in a house as in a body. See that you keep some rooms in yourself, locked up tight.
~ Catherynne M. Valente
You're not in love if you keep your own heart bricked up behind your bones. You're only playing.
~ Catherynne M. Valente
They were all whispers now, the two of them, conspirators and thieves.
~ Catherynne M. Valente
You need me," said Xiaohui breathlessly, pulling November over her, sliding hands under her belt to claw and knead. "You need me." "Don't you mean 'I need you'?" whispered November in the girl's ear. "No," she sighed, arching her back, tipping her chin up, making herself easy to kiss, easy to fall into, easy to devour. "You'll see. You'll see.
~ Catherynne M. Valente
Love is what grown folk do to each other because the law frowns on killing. I
~ Catherynne M. Valente
People who share a secret share a heart.
~ Catherynne M. Valente
A mother's like a poison made for only one soul.
~ Catherynne M. Valente
If a bird or any other beast comes out of that uncanny republic where husbands are grown, I will see him with his skin off before I agree to fall in love.
~ Catherynne M. Valente
Falling in love is embarrassing. It is not hardcore. It is not part of the scene.
~ Catherynne M. Valente
And, at night, in a narrow bed in her old room, Mary Morevna would hold Ivan tight inside of her, demanding his obedience to her, demanding that his soul be ripped out and emptied into her.
~ Catherynne M. Valente