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Quotes About Intimacy

Sex comes to most of us with a twist.
~ Iris Murdoch
He did not touch her but enjoyed the particular intimate pain of the tension between them.
~ Iris Murdoch
There's no point in talking it over. It would only make things worse. There's nothing to say. I just love you. That's all of it. That's half of it, said Ducane. Possibly over dinner I might tell you the other half.
~ Iris Murdoch
Their hands touched, their knees touched. They were both trembling.
~ Iris Murdoch
I want you to be able to see me, and as my love for you is so much of me (all of me, making me more than myself) then you must see that too.
~ Iris Murdoch
What dangerous machines letters are. Perhaps it is as well that they are going out of fashion. A letter can be endlessly reread and reinterpreted, it stirs imagination and fantasy, it persists, it is red-hot evidence. It was a long time since I had received anything resembling a love letter.
~ Iris Murdoch
It's not so easy. What isn't? To establish relationships, you can't just elect people, it can't be done by thinking and willing.
~ Iris Murdoch
I hate solitude, but I am afraid of intimacy. The substance of my life is a private conversation with myself which to turn into a dialogue would be equivalent to self-destruction.
~ Iris Murdoch
How could it be that I had actually kissed her cheek without enveloping her, without becoming her? How could I at that moment have refrained from kneeling at her feet and howling?
~ Iris Murdoch
He could feel the pain of her heart beating strongly against his own.
~ Iris Murdoch
He simply would not have married anybody whom he loved in that rather simple mediocre sort of way.
~ Iris Murdoch
Perhaps the crime was that of letting himself be loved so much more than he loved.
~ Iris Murdoch
His eyes closed now, and for a long time they sat quietly thus. Such was their lovemaking.
~ Iris Murdoch
There was as much emotion generated between them now as if they had been lovers.
~ Iris Murdoch
Today we will read love poetry. You shall read aloud to me and we will weep together.
~ Iris Murdoch
Our relationship in fact was never idle. It was obvious that we constantly thought about each other.
~ Iris Murdoch
Understanding was out of the question; and indeed how passionately, just then, I did not want to be understood.
~ Iris Murdoch
To find someone — oh yes — that is the problem. To have mutual love, that is so difficult indeed.
~ Iris Murdoch
What are you thinking, my love, my darling?' 'About you. I was wondering if you could make me happy. It would be fearfully difficult.' 'I'm fearfully clever, and I love you fearfully much.
~ Iris Murdoch
Ludens thought, why can't I do that, why can't I just ask a woman to hold my hand, why can't I ask Franca to!
~ Iris Murdoch
He wanted to take her in his arms, he wanted to be utterly revealed to her, he wanted her to understand.
~ Iris Murdoch
But my wants are huge, my desires are rapacious, I want love, I want the splendour and violence of love, and I want it now, I want someone of my own.
~ Iris Murdoch
To find a person inexhaustible is simply the definition of love.
~ Iris Murdoch
And oh, when we still used to sleep together, lying awake at night and finding one's only consolation in imagining in detail how one would go downstairs and find a hatchet and smash one's partners head in and mash it into a bloody pudding on the pillow!
~ Iris Murdoch