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Quotes About Influence

Thus, it is the listener and not the speaker who decides how powerful a threat will be.
~ Gavin de Becker
Most human predators, however, seek power, not food. To destroy or damage something is to take its power.
~ Gavin de Becker
Don't think of persuasion as something someone does to us; persuasion is an internal process, not an external one. We persuade ourselves. A predator merely manipulates how things seem to us.
~ Gavin de Becker
Charm is almost always a directed instrument, which, like rapport-building, has motive.
~ Gavin de Becker
Threats betray the speaker by proving that he has failed to influence events in any other way. Most often they represent desperation, not intention.
~ Gavin de Becker
My dad didn't want me to play guitar. He played piano, so I chose that. And I ended up loving it.
~ Gavin DeGraw
Women are the first to jump on what is fashionable.
~ Gavin DeGraw
River mostly contributed backing vocals and handclaps, although he may have played some guitar on "Rock Out with Your Cock Out.
~ Gavin Edwards
I think this kind of a big name to hold up when you're nine years old. It seemed goofy. I used to tell people I wanted to change the world and they used to think the kid's really weird.
~ Gavin Edwards
Myths rule the world.
~ Gavriil Stiharul
?tiu c? prin ceea ce scriu nu pot schimba o lume gre?it?, dar pot schimba atitudinea gre?it? a lumii fa?? de mine.
~ Gavriil Stiharul
Trebuie s? tr?ie?ti în a?a fel încât ceilal?i s?-?i regrete moartea, nu s? ?i-o doreasc?.
~ Gavriil Stiharul
Bribes are the glue that's kept teenagers and parents connected for generations
~ Gayle Forman
In that twisted incestuous way of fate, Mia's a part of our history, and we're among the shards of her legacy.
~ Gayle Forman
Mia," Kim said, an edge of warning in her voice signaling the end of her patience. "You're starting to act like one of those girls. Do you need to get me a gun?
~ Gayle Forman
And this is the truth. Because I may be only eighteen, but it already seems pretty obvious that the world is divided into two groups: the doers and the watchers. The people things happen to and the rest of us, who just sort of plod on with things. The Lulus and the Allysons. It never occurred to me that by pretending to be Lulu, I might slip into that other column, even for just a day.
~ Gayle Forman
I don't discount a magical hand of fate. I am an actor, after all, and a Shakespearian, no less. But it can't be the ruling force of your life. You have to be the driver.
~ Gayle Forman
I am running the show. Everyone is waiting for me. I decide. I know this now.
~ Gayle Forman
That happens a lot with Shakespeare. The women go after what they want; the men wind up suckered into things.
~ Gayle Forman
It's something that never comes off, no matter how much you might want it to." "You're comparing love to a…stain?" He leans so far back in his seat that the front legs of his chair scrape off the floor. He looks very satisfied, with the crepe or with himself, I'm not sure. "Exactly.
~ Gayle Forman
When you watch, you are a spectator, but when you read, you're a participant.
~ Gayle Forman
Sometimes you don't even need to be in the same room for the damage to be done.
~ Gayle Forman
Rumors, even true ones, are like flames: Stifle the oxygen and they sputter and die.
~ Gayle Forman
Everyone thinks it was because of the snow. And in a way, I suppose that's true.
~ Gayle Forman