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Quotes About Experience

Eventually, we all make it home, and we each make an individual path by any means.
~ Joy Harjo
I know I walk in and out of several worlds every day.
~ Joy Harjo
Time and how are the mysterious elements of any life.
~ Joy Harjo
The question that comes up when you write about trauma is, are you retraumatizing? Are you retraumatizing by writing about trauma? That's a good question. I remember the writer, poet Meridel Le Sueur, social activist in the '30, calling to tell me when I was a young woman, she said: "I wrote so beautifully about terrible things that happened. And was I wrong to do that?
~ Joy Harjo
Memories are strange things. Without being something I can hold in my hand, they wield a beguiling power over me. Like a mirage in the noontime heat of summer they dance before my inner eyes and beckon me to find water where there is no water.
~ Joy Sikorski
They lived and laughed and loved and left
~ Joyce
The danger of motherhood. you relive your early self, through the eyes of your mother.
~ Joyce Carol Oates
Memory blurs, that's the point. If memory didn't blur you wouldn't have the fool's courage to do things again, again, again, that tear you apart.
~ Joyce Carol Oates
Even if I seemed to remember, I could not know. For just to remember something is not to know if it really happened. That is a primary fact of the inner life, the most difficult fact with which we must live.
~ Joyce Carol Oates
I do what I want to do. It was a brash statement of(her)girlhood. Now she was an adult, the boast seemed quaint. For rarely do you know what you want. Even after you've done it you can't say clearly if that was what you'd wanted or just something that happened to you, like weather.
~ Joyce Carol Oates
Time is the element in which we exist... We are either borne along by it or drowned in it.
~ Joyce Carol Oates
Dear girl! Life is addictive. Yet we must live.
~ Joyce Carol Oates
The distinction between assistant and intern is a simple one: assistants are paid, interns are not. But of course interns are paid, in experience.
~ Joyce Carol Oates
Our lives can only be interpreted in retrospect, yet must be lived from day to day, blindly. What folly, the human condition!
~ Joyce Carol Oates
These are the moments for which we live.
~ Joyce Carol Oates
But he doesn't love her. I invented that. It is a plot if you imagine people in love--the lazy looping criss crosses of love, blows, stares, tears. No. It doesn't happen. No love. People meet, touch, stare into one another's faces, shake their heads clear, move on, forget. It doesn't happen.
~ Joyce Carol Oates
I was nineteen years five months old when I fell in love for the first time. This seemed to me a profound, advanced age; never can we anticipate being older than we are, or wiser; if we're exhausted, it's impossible to anticipate being strong; as, in the grip of a dream, we rarely understand that we're dreaming, and will escape by the simplest of methods, opening our eyes.
~ Joyce Carol Oates
Memory blurs, that's the point. If memory didn't blur you wouldn't have the fool's courage to do things again, again, again that tear you apart.
~ Joyce Carol Oates
I've never thought of writing as the mere arrangement of words on the page but the attempted embodiment of a vision; a complex of emotions; raw experience. The effort of memorable art is to evoke in the reader or spectator emotions appropriate to that effort.
~ Joyce Carol Oates
You love the life you've lived because it is yours.
~ Joyce Carol Oates
The minutiae of our lives! Telephone calls, errands, appointments. None of these is of the slightest significance to others and but fleetingly to us yet they constitute such a portion of our lives, it might be argued that our lives are a concatenation of minutiae interrupted at unpredictable times by significant events.
~ Joyce Carol Oates
Thinking of such things like they'd happened years ago already and not just a few weeks back. For once life begins to accelerate it goes faster and faster.
~ Joyce Carol Oates
Laughter too depends upon memory—a memory of previous laughter. Dr.
~ Joyce Carol Oates
First marriage, and nothing so sweet! You don't know it at the time.
~ Joyce Carol Oates