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Quotes About Experience

Even then, when the hike was perfect, I would wonder, 'Now what?' And take a picture. Take another picture. Like a man with a photogenic girlfriend he didn't love.
~ Jonathan Franzen
You thought you knew what food was, you thought it was elemental. You forgot how much restaurant there was in restaurant food and how much home was in homemade.
~ Jonathan Franzen
I'm telling you that I will be all right without you. Everything we have is temporary, the joy, the suffering, everything. I had the joy of experiencing your goodness for a very long time. It was enough. I have no right to ask for more.
~ Jonathan Franzen
Your little body had once been deeper inside your mother than your father's dick had ever gone, you'd squeezed your entire goddamned head through her pussy, and then for the longest time you'd sucked on her tits whenever you felt like it, and you couldn't for the life of you remember it. You found yourself self-alienated from the get-go.
~ Jonathan Franzen
As one anthropologist pointed out to me, trauma is usually a group experience, so trauma recovery should be a group experience as well. But in our society it's not.
~ Jonathan Franzen
She'd visited the Continent five times on vacation and twice on business trips with Alfred, so about a dozen times altogether, and to friends planning tours of Spain or France she now liked to say, with a sigh, that she'd had her fill of the place.
~ Jonathan Franzen
La brezza fredda e il fumo della Camel si mescolavano come gioia e rimorso.
~ Jonathan Franzen
Leila would have been well advised, before marrying a novelist or imagining herself as one, to wait and sample life in a house where a big book was being contemplated.
~ Jonathan Franzen
In terms of having an experience, seriously contemplating a murder was almost as good as going through with it, and it had the added benefit of not entailing risk. Between prison and no prison, no prison was clearly preferable.
~ Jonathan Franzen
How the hours can pass with mere kissing is lost to me now, along with the rest of my youth.
~ Jonathan Franzen
simply by trying to speak honestly, surrendering to emotion, supporting other people in their honesty and emotion, she experienced her first glimmerings of spirituality.
~ Jonathan Franzen
In terms of having an experience, seriously contemplating a murder was almost as good as going through with it, and it had the added benefit of not entailing risk.
~ Jonathan Franzen
She felt as if, while working and sleeping and working and sleeping, she'd aged so rapidly that she'd passed Emile and caught up with her parents.
~ Jonathan Franzen
Watching him fall down and pick himself back up, Perry mourned no longer being small enough that falling didn't hurt. He no longer even remembered how it felt to have the ground so unthreateningly proximate. Why had he been in such a hurry to grow up? It was as if he'd never experienced the grace of childhood.
~ Jonathan Franzen
Google and Accurint can make you feel very smart, but the best stories come when you're out in the field.
~ Jonathan Franzen
Joey described to her the sleek warm neatness of her turds as they slid from her anus and fell into his open mouth, where, since they were only words, they tasted like excellent dark chocolate.
~ Jonathan Franzen
How many times had he read the word joy without having experienced what it meant?
~ Jonathan Franzen
The basic Buddhist teaching of impermanence (Pali: anicca) suggests that even the most powerful spiritual experiences come and go like clouds in the sky. The point of practice is to realize a truth so deep and fundamental that it doesn't change, because it's not an experience at all; it's the nature of reality itself. This undeniable, unalterable realization is known as enlightenment.
~ Jonathan Landaw
New York didn't set out to charm you. It was like God that way. You had to bring a lot of the enthusiasm yourself.
~ Jonathan Lee
If you pay too much attention to time, in certain tedious moments, it slows down to punish you.
~ Jonathan Lee
The key to mostly anything is pretending your first time *isn't*.
~ Jonathan Lethem
The thing about this bookshelf is that each of these books is a vast experience unto itself, while also being both self-contained and superbly useless. Reading any one of them doesn't get you anywhere particularly meaningful; you haven't arrived or graduated; you've just gone and done something that passed the time. It's like taking a long walk with a friend who's got a lot to say. There's not cumulative purpose to it - it's just an excellent way to waste your life.
~ Jonathan Lethem
Everyone's body betrayed them in different ways, it was all forgiven and never discussed.
~ Jonathan Lethem
He couldn't be more than twenty-five, but he obviously lived enough to have things to regret. He looked like he'd taken a long fall a short time ago. Pieces of the man he'd been were jumbled up with the new guy, the lost soul.
~ Jonathan Lethem