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Quotes About Family

It wasn't until the 1920s that a bare majority of children grew up in families where the father's labor purchased the family's provisions, while their mother did unpaid child care, elder care, and housework. The Great Depression and World War II disrupted this family form, but it roared back in the 1950s, when the percentage of wives and mothers who were supported entirely by their husbands' wages reached a high that has never been equaled, before or since.
~ Stephanie Coontz
In one case, although the judge was sure that a woman's rape accusation against her father-in-law was true, he ordered the young man to give up his sentimental desire "to grow old together" with his wife. Loyalty to parents was paramount, and therefore the son should send his wife back to her own father, who could then marry her to someone else. Sons were sometimes ordered beaten for siding with their wives against their father.
~ Stephanie Coontz
In Europe and the United States today such an arrangement would be a surefire recipe for jealousy, bitter breakups, and very mixed-up kids. But among the Bari people this practice was in the best interests of the child. The secondary fathers were expected to provide the child with fish and game, with the result that a child with a secondary father was twice as likely to live to the age of fifteen as a brother or sister without such a father.32
~ Stephanie Coontz
If it is hard to find a 'natural' parent-child relationship in this variety of family arrangements, it is also difficult to make pat historical judgments about what kind of family is best for children.
~ Stephanie Coontz
as long as we respond to the uncertainties with common sense, flexibility, and affection, most of us can be, in therapist Donald Winnicott's words, "good enough" parents.
~ Stephanie Coontz
On the whole, a woman isn't keen on her mother-in-law if she's controlling, disapproving, or interfering. Mine is a triple major in the ings and took extra night classes in calculating just for kicks. The woman is a hate nerd.
~ Stephanie Klein
At night, I fly down to Earth, and I watch my littlest Babyboy sleep. He's seven, and he's got a picture of me on his wall—right in between Shaquille O'Neal and the Incredible Hulk.
~ Stephen Adly Guirgis
He'd gotten into a fight with his sister, Splayfoot, over a particularly juicy dwarf willow he'd found. Just as he had prised the branches from the ground and had begun to strip them of their succulent leaves, the calf had come bustling over to him and had tried to push him away so she could get at the willow herself. His willow.
~ Stephen Baxter
Did your parents die of the flu?' 'Yeah, I don't really know how long ago that was now though. It's hard to keep counting the days.' 'You're right about that,' Nick agreed. 'But it's been about two months since the pandemic.' 'Two
~ Stephen Birch
The Roosevelts, Bayards, Van Cortlandts, and Rhinelanders were in the sugar-refining business.
~ Stephen Birmingham
Brevoorts and Goelets were ironmongers, and the Schermerhorns were ship chandlers.
~ Stephen Birmingham
I just hope I remember to tell my kids that they are as happy as I look in my old photographs. And I hope that they believe me.
~ Stephen Chbosky
I don't know if it's better to be close with your daughter or make sure that she has a better life than you do.
~ Stephen Chbosky
As I was walking up the stairs to dad's old room, and I was looking at the photographs, I started thinking that there was a time when these weren't memories. That someone actually took the photograph, and the people in the photograph had just eaten lunch or something.
~ Stephen Chbosky
When I was driving home, I just thought about the word 'special'. And I thought the last person who said that about me was my Aunt Helen. I was very grateful to have heard it again. Because I guess we all forget sometimes. And I think everyone is special in their own way. I really do.
~ Stephen Chbosky
but my dad said it was no excuse. But I love him! I had never seen my sister cry that much. No, you don't. I hate you! No, you don't. My dad can be very calm sometimes. He's my whole world. Don't ever say that about anyone again. Not even me. That was my mom.
~ Stephen Chbosky
The fact that one of these ladies was my mom made me particularly sad because my mom is beautiful. And she's always on a diet. Sometimes, my dad calls her beautiful, but she cannot hear him.
~ Stephen Chbosky
I love my mom. And this time, I told her I loved her. And she told me she loved me, too. And things were okay for a little while.
~ Stephen Chbosky
Despite everything my mom and doctor and dad have said to me about blame, I can't stop thinking what I know. And I know that my aunt Helen would still be alive today if she just bought me one present like everybody else. She would be alive if I were born on a day that didn't snow.
~ Stephen Chbosky
I really do love my sister. Especially when she's nice.
~ Stephen Chbosky
My sister was the one who told me where babies come from. My sister was also the one who laughed when I immediately asked her where babies go to.
~ Stephen Chbosky
When the police came, they found my brother asleep on the roof. Nobody knows how he got there.
~ Stephen Chbosky
I think on my next birthday, I'm going to buy her a present. I think that should be the tradition. The kid gets gifts from everybody, and he buys one present for his mom since she was there, too. I think that would be nice.
~ Stephen Chbosky
Do you enjoy holidays with your family? I don't mean your mom and dad family, but your uncle and aunt and cousin family? Personally, I do. There are several reasons for this. First, I am very interested and fascinated by how everyone loves each other, but no one really likes each other. Second, the fights are always the same.
~ Stephen Chbosky