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Quotes About Support

somebody has to catch the mouse. So here's my proposal. You be the strong one Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays. And I'll be the strong one Tuesdays, Thursdays, and Saturdays.
~ Andrew Sean Greer
All parenting turns on a crucial question: to what extent parents should accept their children for who they are, and to what extent they should help them become their best selves.
~ Andrew Solomon
There is no contradiction between loving someone and feeling burdened by that person; indeed, love tends to magnify the burden.
~ Andrew Solomon
So many people have asked me what to do for depressed friends and relatives, and my answer is actually simple: blunt their isolation. Do it with cups of tea or with long talks or by sitting in a room nearby and staying silent or in whatever way suits the circumstances, but do that. And do it willingly.
~ Andrew Solomon
Mental illness is real illness
~ Andrew Solomon
I'll tell them all the good things and some difficulties. The parents may never accept what happened to them and yet accept their child. They're two separate things, the parental loss, and the actual person they will almost always end up loving.
~ Andrew Solomon
People around depressives expect them to get themselves together: our society has little room in it for moping. Spouses, parents, children, and friends are all subject to being brought down themselves, and they do not want to be close to measureless pain.
~ Andrew Solomon
Prozac doesn't do it unless we help it along. Listen to the people who love you. Believe that they are worth living for even when you don't believe it. Seek out the memories depression takes away and project them into the future. Be brave; be strong; take your pills. Exercise because it's good for you even if every step weighs a thousand pounds. Eat when food itself disgusts you. Reason with yourself when you have lost your reason.
~ Andrew Solomon
I guess being depressed all the time was actually a relatively safe place to be. I didn't have the real-world worries that everyone else has because I knew that I simply couldn't function well enough to take care of myself. What do I do now? Trying to break the habits of years of depression is what I'm doing for the moment with my doctor.
~ Andrew Solomon
Listen to the people who love you. Believe that they are worth living for even when you don't believe it. Seek out the memories depression takes away and project them into the future. Be brave; be strong; take your pills. Exercise because it's good for you even if every step weighs a thousand pounds.
~ Andrew Solomon
It's important not to suppress your feelings altogether when you are depressed. It's equally important to avoid terrible arguments or expressions of outrage. You should steer clear of emotionally damaging behavior. People forgive, but it's best not to stir things up to the point at which forgiveness is required. When you are depressed, you need the love of other people, and yet depression fosters actions that destroy that love.
~ Andrew Solomon
No one can do anything but beg for help (if he can do even that) at the lowest depths of a major depression, but once the help is provided, it must also be accepted.
~ Andrew Solomon
Listen to the people who love you. Believe that they are worth living for even when you don't believe it. Seek
~ Andrew Solomon
When the child does not conform to this image, the parents often need help in adapting their behavior to the reality—they
~ Andrew Solomon
At least half of the children available for adoption in the United States have disabilities of some kind.
~ Andrew Solomon
Pot fi, într-o relaÈ›ie imperfect?, mult mai bine decât când sunt singur?.
~ Andrew Solomon
In typical circumstances, to have children who won't care for you in your dotage is to be King Lear. Disability changes the reciprocity equation.
~ Andrew Solomon
In the United States, 150,000 people with schizophrenia are homeless; one in five people with schizophrenia is homeless in any given year.
~ Andrew Solomon
Poverty is the absence of linkages, the absence of connections with others
~ Andy Crouch
If you are looking for a single proximate cause of the loneliness that is epidemic in our world, it is the dearth of households.
~ Andy Crouch
Beatrix is kneeling beside him, fanning his face. 'Are you okay, Boris?' says Beatrix. 'Never felt better!' says Boris, suddenly leaping up and stretching out to his full height.
~ Andy Griffiths
Don't mention it," I say. "That's what friends are for. Come on! To the flying fried-egg car!
~ Andy Griffiths
Our books are friends for life.
~ Andy Griffiths
The biggest price you pay for love is that you have to have somebody around, you can't be on your own, wich is always so much better.
~ Andy Warhol