Quotes About Behavior

We cannot take credit for the kind and generous things we do while under the influence of "the obsession." We are pushed and carried along by an instinctual force that goes beyond our normal behavior patterns. But if, once we return to the real world of human choice, we choose to be kind and generous, that is real love.

does. Unconditional love shows love to a child no matter what. We love regardless of what the child looks like; regardless of her assets, liabilities, or handicaps; regardless of what we expect her to be; and, most difficult of all, regardless of how she acts. This does not mean that we like all of her behavior. It does mean that we give and show love to our child all the time, even when her behavior is poor.

Sadly, some parents display a love that is conditional; it depends on something other than their children just being. Conditional love is based on performance and is often associated with training techniques that offer gifts, rewards, and privileges to children who behave or perform in desired ways.

I liked the metaphor the first time I heard it: Inside every child is an 'emotional tank' waiting to be filled with love. When a child really feels loved, he will develop normally, but when the love tank is empty, the child will misbehave. Much of the misbehavior of children is motivated by the cravings of an empty 'love tank'.

Dear children, let's not merely say that we love each other; let us show the truth by our actions. —1 John 3:18

In interiorul fiecarui copil, exista un rezervor afectiv care de-abia asteapta sa fie umplut cu iubire. Atunci cand un copil se simte cu adevarat iubit, el se va dezvolta normal; dar cand rezervorul este gol, copilul se va comporta in mod nedorit. In mare masura, acest comportament necuviincios este motivat de dorinta arzatoare de a umple rezervorul iubirii.

Researchers are concerned that when screen time goes up, empathy goes down. Kids are exposed to violence in video games, which can desensitize them to pain in others, bullying, and acts of violence.

If your child is using some of the negative behavioral responses to anger, such as pushing, shoving, and throwing objects, focus on the anger first and the behavior second. You might say, "It's obvious that you are very angry. I would like to hear what's bothering you, but we can't talk while you are _________. Would you like for us to take a walk and talk about it?

Our behavior will affect our partner's emotions. In fact, if we learn to express love in the other person's love language, he/she will feel loved. And if that person reciprocates by speaking our love language, he/she will meet our emotional need for love.

In interiorul fiecarui copil, exista unr ezervor afectiv care de-abia asteapta sa fie umplut cu iubire. Atunci cand un copil se simte cu adevarat iubit, el se va dezvolta normal; dar cand rezervorul este gol, copilul se va comporta in mod nedorit. In mare masura, acest comportament necuviincios este motivat de doritna arzatoare de a umple rezervorul iubirii.

Love is not a feeling, it is a way of behaving.

los cumplidos verbales son motivadores más estupendos que los regaños constantes.

I'm trying to learn to be on my best behavior with those I love the most.

Some curmudgeons are angels in disguise.

Restraining our response is not the same as storing our anger. It is refusing to take the action that we typically take when feeling angry.

Your children will sense how you feel about them by how you behave toward them.

The Bible doesn't say it's a sin to be angry, just not to respond in sinful ways or let it control us. — Julie Durham —

These people are grumblers and complainers, living only to satisfy their desires. —Jude 16

Much of the misbehavior of children is motivated by the cravings of an empty 'love tank.

Little by little, the illusion of intimacy evaporates, and the individual desires, emotions, thoughts, and behavior patterns assert themselves. They are two individuals. Their minds have not melded together, and their emotions mingled only briefly in the ocean of love.

They'll know we are transformed when our behavior truly changes. — James Stuart Bell

People do not decide their futures, they decide their habits and their habits decide their futures." —F. M. Alexander

There's nothing wrong with bad habits...Where would we be without our bad habits? They're what separates us from the dreary souls amongst us.

I have seen their humor and anger expressed in natural terms and learned more about them as dogs and not just extensions of human training.