Quotes About Trust

People want a fair deal from someone they like.

most people are good," says Jim. "But not when they're afraid.

My mom insists that my friendships online aren't real. She says that until you meet someone in person, you don't really know them. I don't agree

My porch feels as safe as a chocolate doughnut on an ant hill.

Maps are just a lie we tell ourselves to feel safe.

I have learned that if all we ever do is seek God's hand, we may miss His face; but if we seek His face, He will be glad to open His hand and satisfy the deepest desires of our hearts.

If my activity is human in origin, it will fail. • If my activity is from God, nobody will be able to stop it.

I say often that prayerlessness is our declaration of independence from God.

The lie that terrorists want you to believe is that you are in immediate and great peril.

Ideally, friends are people with whom we can be our true selves, with whom we can fearlessly let our guard down. (Arguably, a close friend is someone with whom we can allow ourselves to enter the daydreaming attentional mode, with whom we can switch in and out of our different modes of attention without feeling awkward.)

You don't have to try too hard to have fun with your preschooler. Just being with you is paradise for him.

Presence depends upon a sense of safety. The

It is, ironically, "safer" to believe that the reason your needs are not being met is because there is something wrong with you, rather than that your parents—whom you depend on for your very survival—are actually not dependable.

This is the PART we play in helpful communication. PART means that we are present, attune, resonate, and create trust.

Eventually, you will come to know with all your brain cells that your authentic self is the one thing you can trust the most.

Seasoned parents and child therapists will also tell you that some of the best conversations with children take place while something else is happening. Children are much more apt to share and talk while building something, playing cards, or riding in the car than when you sit down and look them right in the face and ask them to open up.

añadiremos que casi todas las preguntas y dilemas con respecto a la labor de los padres se circunscriben a la idea de relación, así que en eso vamos a centrarnos aquí.

Aquí me tienes. Esto es así. Sé que es difícil, pero puedes hacerlo. Estoy contigo.»

We also believe that children should have the right to be free from any form of violence, especially at the hands of the people they trust most to protect them.

When children are securely attached to their parents, they feel safe enough to test that relationship. In other words, your child's misbehavior is often a sign of his trust and safety with you. Many parents notice that their children "save it all up for them," behaving much better at school or with other adults than they do at home. This is why. These flare-ups are often signs of safety and trust, rather than just some form of rebellion.

ayudar a los niños a sentirse 1) seguros: se sienten protegidos y libres de todo mal; 2) vistos: saben que les importas y les prestas atención; 3) consolados: saben que estarás a su lado en los malos momentos; y 4) a salvo: basándose en las otras condiciones, confían en que, previsiblemente, los ayudes a sentirse «a gusto» en el mundo, y después aprenden a ayudarse a sí mismos a sentirse seguros, vistos y consolados.

When children are securely attached to their parents, they feel safe enough to test that relationship. In

I'm with you. I've got your back. Even when you're at your worst and I don't like the way you're acting, I love you, and I'm here for you. I understand you're having a hard time, and I am here.

Sadly, many of us learn to be wary of others, and even of our own inner life, and the resulting prison of our own mental adaptations to survive creates a belief that we are helpless to make a change.