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Quotes About Hurt

Jeremiah was crying now too. Good, I thought. Hurt like you've hurt me.
~ Jenny Han
I can see now that it's the little things, the small efforts, that keep a relationship going. And I know now too that in some small measure I have the power to hurt him and also the power to make it better. This discover leaves me with an unsettling, queer sort of feeling in my chest for reasons I can't explain.
~ Jenny Han
Do you have any idea how badly you've hurt her, over and over again? You treat her like a toy that you just pick up and play with whenever you feel like it. You're like a little boy. Someone else took what was yours, and you don't like that one bit, so you swoop in and shit all over everything just because you can.
~ Jenny Han
I don't realize it until the words are actually out of my mouth, but I say it to hurt him.
~ Jenny Han
Why would you ruin my best thing?
~ Jenny Offill
That's the way a prejudice works; you come to despise the people you've taken advantage of so your conscience doesn't hurt.
~ Jerry Borrowman
Bitterness usually stems not so much from the other person's actions as from the effects of those actions on our lives. Consider the following scenario in your life.
~ Jerry Bridges
A broken bone can heal, but the wound a word opens can fester forever.
~ Jessamyn West
He saw clearly the truth other men didn't. If you gave anyone the power to hurt you, soon enough, they were going to use it.
~ Jessica Bird
Her laugh was a travesty. Which made sense because in a way, so was his apology. But what was he supposed to say? I want you until I hurt. Until I sweat. I love you with a raw, bleeding need that I've never understood. And all I know for sure is that you can never be mine.
~ Jessica Bird
Isaac, at this point, still considered Moore a personal friend. It hurt him, no doubt, that Moore had distorted the story of his experience in the storm. Isaac had lost his wife and home, and had nearly lost a daughter, but Moore could not be bothered with the actual details.
~ Erik Larson
My heart's broken,' he thought. 'If I feel this way my heart must be broken.
~ Ernest Hemingway
The rain will stop, the night will end, the hurt will fade. Hope is never so lost that it can't be found.
~ Ernest Hemingway
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~ Ernest Hemingway
When you stop you are as empty, and at the same time never empty but filling, as when you have made love to someone you love. Nothing can hurt you, nothing can happen, nothing means anything until the next day when you do it again. It is the wait until the next day that is hard to get through.
~ Ernest Hemingway
I don't love anybody, Krebs said. It wasn't any good. He couldn't tell her, he couldn't make her see it. It was silly to have said it. He had only hurt her.
~ Ernest Hemingway
He had died in a trap that he had helped only a little to set, and they had all betrayed him in their various ways before he died. All sentimental people are betrayed so many times.
~ Ernest Hemingway
No woman should ever give one man all the power to shatter her romantic ideals. There is a big difference between saying, "That one person let me down and I'm hurt," and saying, "I'll never love again." But these two women are not ready to make that distinction. They see the world as offering two options—hurt or be hurt. As Lailani puts it, "I should've stayed the bitch. Nobody hurts the bitch.
~ Esther Perel
Revenge often looks petty, but I have come to respect the depth of hurt it conceals.
~ Esther Perel
the moment the affair is revealed, the narrative will irrevocably switch. It will no longer be a story of self-discovery, but one of betrayal. I am not sure what they have to gain from that.
~ Esther Perel
Revenge may not always be sweet, but occasionally it hits a sweet spot that empowers the hurt party and allows a couple to put the past behind them. We all have a need for justice. However, it is important to distinguish between retributive justice and restorative justice. The former seeks only punishment; the latter engages in repair.
~ Esther Perel
I've observed an interesting connection between my patients' responses to betrayal and the type of justice they are likely to seek. Some mourn the loss of the connection. "I'm hurt because I lost you." Others mourn the loss of face. "I can't believe you made such an idiot of me." One is a relational injury; the second, a narcissistic one. Wounded hearts; wounded pride.
~ Esther Perel
Adultery has always hurt. But for modern love's acolytes, it seems to hurt more than ever. In fact, the maelstrom of emotions that are unleashed in the wake of an affair is so overwhelming that many contemporary psychologists borrow from the field of trauma to explain the symptoms: obsessive rumination, hypervigilance, numbness and dissociation, inexplicable rages and uncontrollable panic.
~ Esther Perel
Secrets and lies are at the heart of every affair, and they heighten both the excitement of the lovers and the pain of the betrayed.
~ Esther Perel