Quotes About Judgment

As Cotton Mather would write some time later, "Better whip't than damned."*

A messy house is a must - it separates your true friends from other friends. Real friends are there to visit you not your house!

Everyone's different from how they look on the outside

once when this woman was going on and on about how she would never read on download, that there was nothing like a real book and – I promise I normally am never rude to people but she was being truly insufferable – I said, 'Well, they're really only for people who read a lot' which was mean of me but quite satisfying also.

Some girls are pretty and they were born for it but no matter what always be yourself because people might see the wrong side of you

Life is sexist. If you were to get pregnant, you're the one whose life changes. Nothing of significance changes for the boy. You're the one people whisper about. I've seen that show, Teen Moms. All those boys are worthless. Garbage!

The look on his face made me want to die. It confirmed every mean and low thing I'd ever thought about myself, the stuff you hope and pray no one will ever know about you. Because if they knew, they would see the real you, and they would despise you.

society is far too caught up in shaming a woman for enjoying sex and applauding a man

I am wearing an old yellow sundress of Celia's, and I have tied my hair back with green ribbon. I think I look real nice. And all they see is the cake.

Boys will be boys, but girls are supposed to be careful: of our bodies, of our futures, of all the ways people judge us.

People will love you or hate you for being different, but who's to say which way it'll go? You never know. It's completely arbitrary.

My second thought was, I'm prettier than her.

pero no puedes juzgar a quién amas más por la cantidad de tiempo que los amas.

Whoever you should choose to partake in that enjoyment, that is your choice, and choose wisely.

This is what Margot was talking about, this double standard. Boys will be boys, but girls are supposed to be careful: of our bodies, of our futures, of all the ways people judge us.

She would probably lump Chris in with the party girls, the girls who sleep around, the girls who aren't "better than that." She would be wrong. We're all the same.

I definitely don't think he's a good guy for you. All of those lacrosse guys are so douchey." "Well, Peter's not like those other guys." I don't understand why Margot can't just be happy for me. I was at least pretend happy for her when she started dating Josh. She could be pretend happy for me too.

But I sure as heck won't admit any of that to Mark. I'll probably be dining on Extra Crunchy Jif tonight, but at least I won't have shamed my mama. Not that she would even be ashamed, but I know for a fact that she doesn't like the neighborhood knowing our family business.

Cehennemin en s?cak yerleri kriz an?nda tarafs?zl???n? koruyanlar için ayr?lm??," dedim...

you can't judge who you love the most by how long you love them." -Lara Jean

People are so charmed by beautiful boys. Beautiful boys get an indulgent shake of the head

I can just tell that you're the kind of girl who does.

Which cake is yours? The coconut one?" My head snaps up. "I would never buy a grocery-store cake for this.

Society is far too caught up in shaming a woman for enjoying sex and applauding a man. I mean, all of the comments are about how Lara Jean is a slut, but nobody's saying anything about Peter, and he's right there with her. It's a ridiculous double standard.