Quotes About Judgment

No man can judge another man's heart or trials, for no man can truly know them.

Be slow to trust a man with clothing that was too new. You didn't get to wear new, clean clothing by doing honest work.

Everybody evaluates. We critics are just trained to talk about it.

Dabbid wasn't a mistake. He could make mistakes. Then he was stupid. But not always. He couldn't think fast like others. But that made him different, not stupid. Stupid was a choice.

Brightness Sylphrena. No man can judge another man's heart or trials, for no man can truly know them.

I try to hate everyone. That way, I don't risk leaving out anyone who is particularly deserving.

Es un error habitual suponer que alguien es débil porque se muestra servicial. Si opináis así, es muy posible que seáis la clase de persona que no tiene ni idea de la cantidad de aguante, la cantidad de fuerza, que requiere soportar vuestras idioteces

Clothing doesn't really change a man. But it changes how others react to him.

So?" Kaladin asked her. "What do you think?" "I think you're going to look extremely silly using it. I can't wait.

information is worthless unless we use it to make judgments.

What was wrong with that young man who answered the door?" Wyndle asked. "Dunno," Lift said. "Some people are just born like that.

And don't you give me that innocent look. These are the Forests. Everybody here has done something, now and then, that you don't want others to know about....

It is a great irony that society tends to look down on those who sell their bodies, but not on those who lease out their minds.

Debe alguien, un ser invisible, declarar qué es el bien para que sea bueno? Yo creo que mi propia moralidad, que responde solo ante mi corazón, es más segura y veraz que la moralidad de aquellos que hacen el bien solo porque temen el castigo. —Pero

Everyone who is your enemy must also be an evil person?

We want to imagine that people are consistent, steady, stable. We define who they are, create descriptions to lock them on a page, divide them up by their likes, talents, beliefs. Then we pretend some—perhaps most—are better than we are, because they stick to their definitions, while we never quite fit ours.

If you put shame in a Petri dish, it needs three things to grow exponentially: secrecy, silence and judgment.

I define connection as the energy that exists between people when they feel seen, heard, and valued; when they can give and receive without judgment; and when they derive sustenance and strength from the relationship.

Until we can receive with an open heart, we're never really giving with an open heart. When we attach judgment to receiving help, we knowingly or unknowingly attach judgment to giving help.

Steve said, "I don't know. I really don't. All I know is that my life is better when I assume that people are doing their best. It keeps me out of judgment and lets me focus on what is, and not what should or could be." His answer felt like truth to me. Not an easy truth, but truth.

Perfectionism is not the same thing has striving to be your best. Perfectionism is the belief that if we live perfect, look perfect, and act perfect, we can minimize or avoid the pain of blame, judgement, and shame. It's a shield. It's a twenty-ton shield that we lug around thinking it will protect us when, in fact, it's the thing that's really preventing us from flight.

Perfectionism is not the same thing as striving for excellence. Perfectionism is not about healthy achievement and growth. Perfectionism is a defensive move. It's the belief that if we do things perfectly and look perfect, we can minimize or avoid the pain of blame, judgment, and shame.

I assumed that people weren't doing their best so I judged them and constantly fought being disappointed, which was easier than setting boundaries. Boundaries are hard when you want to be liked and when you are a pleaser hellbent on being easy, fun, and flexible.

when I'm prioritizing being liked over being free, I was much sweeter but less authentic. Now I'm kinder and less judgmental. But also firmer and more solid. Occasionally salty.