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Quotes About Forgetting

It makes me worried about the future, about this nation's inborn capacity to forget, about the powers that be who always win and take over the narrative. Already, "woke" is a hashtag that's now mocked, when being awake is not a singular revelation but a long
~ Cathy Park Hong
But where does the silence that neglects her end, and where does the silence that respects her begins? The problem with silence is that it can't speak up and say why it's silent. And so silence collects, becomes amplified, takes on a life outside our intentions, in that silence can be misread as indifference, or avoidance, or even shame, and eventually this silence passes over into forgetting.
~ Cathy Park Hong
mais do que um grão de verdade no erro contido na definição infantil de memória: memória é a coisa com a qual a gente esquece. Ser capaz de esquecer significa sanidade. Lembrar incessantemente significa
~ Jack London
by this very forgetting, he arrives at a sense for truth.
~ Jacques Derrida
Que aunque el gusto nunca más vuelve a ser el mismo, en la vida los olvidos no suelen durar.
~ Jaime Gil de Biedma
Perhaps everybody has a garden of Eden, I don't know; but they have scarcely seen their garden before they see the flaming sword. Then, perhaps, life only offers the choice of remembering the garden or forgetting it. Either, or: it takes strength to remember, it takes another kind of strength to forget, it takes a hero to do both.
~ James Baldwin
The essentially unchangeable established order of things slowly disappeared and was forgotten for a while completely.
~ Arthur Erickson
Freud has shown one thing very clearly: that we only forget our infancy by burying it in the unconscious; and that the problems of this difficult period find their solution under a disguised form in adult life.
~ Herbert Read
I do have the odd dream where I'm on stage and I've completely forgotten what I'm meant to be performing - so they are more nightmares than dreams.
~ Kate Bush
Men forget everything; women remember everything. That's why men need instant replay in sports. They've already forgotten what's happened.
~ Rita Rudner
Dare not say that man forgets sooner than woman, that his love has an earlier death. I have loved none but you.
~ Jane Austen
Amusement always means putting things out of mind, forgetting suffering, even when it is on display. At its root is powerlessness.
~ Theodor Adorno et al
Ob ein Mensch Erfahrungen machen kann oder nicht, ist in letzter Instanz davon abhängig, wie er vergisst.
~ Theodor W. Adorno
All reification is a forgetting'—making available what has passed at once makes it irretrievable. Therein lies the desperate utopia of all musical reproduction: to retrieve the irretrievable through availability. All music-making is a recherche du temps perdu.
~ Theodor W. Adorno
A story about the burdens of remembering and the costs of forgetting,
~ Theresa Weir
Memory is a funny thing. Makes you remember things that didn't really happen and forget things that did. I'm so scared I'll forget because if I forget all these things that happened then there will be no one on earth who remembers them. And if they're forgotten it's like they never happened. No one can prove it. Some writer said that people become our memories of them. So I guess if no one remembers you, then you weren't really here. - almost him
~ Nicole Blackman
I thought I was pretty damn clever. She said that was all right, she'd make three wishes. The first was that I wouldn't piss this money away being an idiot and forgetting I had
~ Nora Roberts
Some learned and remembered, others never do." She walked down again.
~ Nora Roberts
It's so hard to forget pain, but it's even harder to remember sweetness. We have no scar to show for happiness. We learn so little from peace.
~ Chuck Palahniuk
Es muy duro olvidar el dolor, pero es más duro todavía recordar la dulzura. La felicidad no nos deja cicatrices. Apenas aprendemos nada de la paz.
~ Chuck Palahniuk
The faster the dead could be honored, the faster they could be forgotten.
~ Chuck Palahniuk
Nobody's allowed to come and mourn, you see. Out of sight, out of mind: that's the idea. Of course, that's not the way it works, is it? People forget prime ministers, but they remember murderers.
~ Clive Barker
Try to forget bit by bit, it will be easier on you. Leave it behind. Then the plane tilts in its escape and over the gray wing the city explodes into view with all its miles and spires and inscrutable hustle and as you try to comprehend this sight you realize that you were never really there at all.
~ Colson Whitehead
Olvidar es una función tan importante de la memoria como recordar.
~ Vilém Flusser