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Quotes About Suffering

O, you have torn my life all to pieces... made me be what I prayed you in pity not to make me be again!
~ Thomas Hardy
How I have tried and tried to be a splendid woman, and how destiny has been against me! ...I do not deserve my lot! ...O, the cruelty of putting me into this ill-conceived world! I was capable of much; but I have been injured and blighted and crushed by things beyond my control! O, how hard it is of Heaven to devise such tortures for me, who have done no harm to heaven at all!
~ Thomas Hardy
Here we suffer grief and pain, Here we meet to part again; In Heaven we part no more.
~ Thomas Hardy
Humanity appears upon the scene, hand in hand with trouble
~ Thomas Hardy
What are my books but one plea against man's inhumanity to man --to woman-- and to the lower animals?
~ Thomas Hardy
And there was revived in her the wretched sentiment which had often come to her before, that in inhabiting the fleshly tabernacle with which Nature had endowed her she was somehow doing wrong.
~ Thomas Hardy
Eustacia, I don't know where to look: my thoughts go through me like swords.
~ Thomas Hardy
you have torn my life all to pieces.. made me a victim, a caged bird!
~ Thomas Hardy
and when he awoke it was as if he had awakened in hell. It WAS hell—the hell of conscious failure
~ Thomas Hardy
Misery taught him nothing more than defiant endurance of it.
~ Thomas Hardy
Though fervent was our vow, Though ruddily ran our pleasure, Bliss has fulfilled its measure, And sees its sentence now. Ache deep; but make no moans: Smile out; but stilly suffer: The paths of love are rougher Than thoroughfares of stones.
~ Thomas Hardy
She is a bold and passionate woman, fighting to earn respect as a farm owner and over the course of the novel she has to endure much suffering, which enhances her better qualities while diminishing some elements of her less admirable traits.
~ Thomas Hardy
Tess shrank into herself as if she had been struck. Often enough had he tried to reach those lips against her consent—often had he said gaily that her mouth and breath tasted of the butter and eggs and milk and honey on which she mainly lived, that he drew sustenance from them, and other follies of that sort. But he did not care for them now.
~ Thomas Hardy
What depressed you? Life.
~ Thomas Hardy
what only hurts me now would torture and kill me then!
~ Thomas Hardy
Suddenly she aroused herself and exclaimed, But I'll shake it off. Yes, I will shake it off! No one shall know my suffering. I'll be bitterly merry, and ironically gay, and I'll laugh in derision! - Eustacia Vye
~ Thomas Hardy
Oak was just thinking that whatever he himself might have suffered from Bathsheba's marriage, here was a man who had suffered more, when Boldwood spoke in a changed voice—that of one who yearned to make a confidence and relieve his heart by an outpouring.
~ Thomas Hardy
She was carrying an armful of Bibles for her class, and such was her view of life that events which produced heartache in others wrought beatific smiles upon her - an enviable result, although, in the opinion of Angel, it was obtained by a curiously unnatural sacrifice of humanity to mysticism.
~ Thomas Hardy
Oh, my poor friend and comrade, you'll suffer yet!
~ Thomas Hardy
Here and everywhere be folk dying before their time like frosted leaves, though wanted by their families, the country, and the world; while I, an outcast, an encumberer of the ground, wanted by nobody, and despised by all, live on against my will!
~ Thomas Hardy
Not mentally. But I haven't the courage of my views, as I said before. I didn't marry him altogether because of the scandal. But sometimes a woman's LOVE OF BEING LOVED gets the better of her conscience, and though she is agonized at the thought of treating a man cruelly, she encourages him to love her while she doesn't love him at all. Then, when she sees him suffering, her remorse sets in, and she does what she can to repair the wrong.
~ Thomas Hardy
This weakness of character... suggested that he was the sort of man who was born to ache a good deal before the fall of the curtain on his unncessary life.
~ Thomas Hardy
in this attribute moral or æsthetic poverty contrasts plausibly with material, since those who suffer do not mind it, whilst those who mind it soon cease to suffer.
~ Thomas Hardy
This question of a woman telling her story—the heaviest of crosses to herself—seemed but amusement to others. It was as if people should laugh at martyrdom.
~ Thomas Hardy