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Quotes About Self-deception

Nor is the history of fanatics half so striking in respect to the measureless self-deception of the fanatic himself, as his measureless power of deceiving and bedevilling so many others.
~ Herman Melville
Right knowledge, of itself, EVIDENTLY does not bring about moral transformation in human beings - even supposing that right knowledge is something we are predisposed to desire in the first place. It is possible to be highly educated and at the same time morally depraved. There is, in fact, a certain kind of moral depravity that only the highly educated can attain, because it requires sophisticated skills of rationalization and self-deception.
~ Iain Provan
Especially difficult when the first and best unconscious move of a dedicated liar is to persuade himself he's sincere. And once he's sincere, all deception vanishes.
~ Ian Mcewan
The smile of a deceiver is flawed, insufficient. But can we see these muscles resting there inert when there's so much local variation in faces, pads of fat, odd concavities, differences of bone structure? Especially difficult when the first and best unconscious move of a deliberate liar is to persuade himself he's sincere. And once he's sincere, all deception vanishes.
~ Ian Mcewan
La persona que se dice: me voy a informar seriamente viendo el telediario, se miente a sí misma. Porque no quiere reconocer que se deja llevar por su propia pereza.
~ Ignacio Ramonet
It wasn't real. I deluded myself. I had this aching need to be loved and it was screwing with my head. Sometimes, when you crave certain feelings, you'll trick yourself into thinking the other person is something other than what he appears.
~ Ilona Andrews
Sometimes, when you crave certain feelings, you'll trick yourself into thinking the other person is something other than what he apears.
~ Ilona Andrews
You can fool people. You can fool anybody anytime of the day, but you can't fool yourself. At night, when you go home, you've got to be straight up with you.
~ Whitney Houston
You can fool a lot of yourself but you can't fool the soul.
~ Mary Oliver
Nothing fools you better than the lie you tell yourself.
~ Teller
It's easy to trick yourself into thinking something's funnier than it is.
~ Paula Pell
You can never beat your own mind when it plays tricks on you.
~ Ben Stokes
Buying into the hype can get you into a lot of trouble, believing your own press.
~ Philip Bailey
Strange bonds of trust and self-deception tend to grow between journalists and their subjects.
~ Sam Harris
There are few things in which we deceive ourselves more than in the esteem we profess to entertain for our friends. It is little better than a piece of quackery. The truth is, we think of them as we please, that is, as they please or displease us.
~ William Hazlitt
When we start deceiving ourselves into thinking not that we want something... but that it is a moral imperative that we have it, that is when we join the fashionable madmen.
~ Joan Didion
We begin selling ourselves on what we want to do rather than what we ought to do. We listen to ourselves until we believe our own lies, and the we opt for happiness.
~ Andy Stanley
Beware of feelings, Father. They are the biggest liars in us. They make truth what we want it to be.
~ Dorothy Salisbury Davis
Amazing what we can self-rationalize when we really want something
~ Harlan Coben
We lie about our past to make peace with the present. If we accepted the truth of our history, we would find no peace – our consciences would not permit it. Nor would our rage.
~ Steven Erikson
It was pathetic, the raving accusations of an ego blind to its own lies.
~ Steven Erikson
Intelligence was incomplete—perhaps it always would be—it was flawed. It could not distinguish its own lies from its own truths. Upon the scale of the self, they often weighed the same. Mistakes and malice were arguments of intent alone, not effect.
~ Steven Erikson
We are all members of the same flawed species. Putting our moral vision into practice means imposing our will on others. The human lust for power and esteem, coupled with its vulnerability to self-deception and self-righteousness, makes that an invitation to a calamity, all the worse when the power is directed at a goal as quixotic as eradicating human self-interest.
~ Steven Pinker
Real dread is knowing that your thoughts lie to you, even when you think you are being honest
~ Stig Dagerman