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Quotes About Detachment

Do not worry if others criticize or laugh at you, for their opinions are not your concern.
~ Epictetus
Every day you should put the ideas in action that protect against attachment to externals such as individual people, places or institutions – even your own body.
~ Epictetus
Don't demand or expect that events happen as you would want them too. Accept events as they actually happen. That way, peace is possible
~ Epictetus
So-and-so's son died.' ('The question'). Answer: 'Since it's nothing he can control, it isn't bad.
~ Epictetus
If you wish to have peace and contentment, release your attachment to all things outside your control.
~ Epictetus
Externals include the body and its members, as well as material goods. If you grow attached to any of them as if they were your own, you will incur the penalties prescribed for a thief.
~ Epictetus
Do not say of anything "I have lost it," but rather, "I have given it back.
~ Epictetus
When you attend the games, do not get emotionally invested in the rivalry. Wish only that the best team or athlete wins. Avoid the extremes of elation at a win and devastation at a loss.
~ Epictetus
If you have a favorite cup, remember that it is only a cup that you prefer—if it is broken, you can bear it.
~ Epictetus
Surrender the body and its members, physical faculties, property, reputation, office, honours, children, siblings – repudiate them all.
~ Epictetus
Nothing can truly be taken from us. There is nothing to lose. Inner peace begins when we stop saying of things, I have lost it and instead say, It has been returned to where it came from. [...] The important thing is to take great care with what you have while the world lets you have it.
~ Epictetus
If you wish to have peace and contentment, release your attachment to all things outside your control. This is the path of freedom and happiness.
~ Epictetus
We get angry because we put too high a premium on things that they can steal. Don't attach such value to your clothes, and you won't get angry with the thief who takes them.
~ Epictetus
Loss and sorrow are only possible with respect to things we own.
~ Epictetus
And yet, while there is only the one thing we can care for and devote ourselves to, we choose instead to care about and attach ourselves to a score of others: to our bodies, to our property, to our family, friends and slaves. [15] And, being attached to many things, we are weighed down and dragged along with them.
~ Epictetus
If you wish to be free, do not desire anything that depends on another, lest you make them your master.
~ Epictetus
Freedom is not achieved by satisfying desire, but by eliminating it.
~ Epictetus
To spare oneself from grief at all cost can be achieved only at the price of total detachment, which excludes the ability to experience happiness.
~ Erich Fromm
They were more free, but they were more alone.
~ Erich Fromm
The best thing to do with the best things in life is to give them up.
~ Ambrose Bierce
Do not set your heart on wealth…Do not strain to seek increase,What you have, let it suffice you.If riches come to you by theft,They will not stay the night with you….They made themselves wings like geese,And flew away to the sky.
~ Amenemope
La riqueza no se mide por las cosas que se poseen sino por aquellas de las que sabemos prescindir.
~ Amin Maalouf
Je ne porte aucun jugement, je constate seulement.
~ Amin Maalouf
Perspective is useful, of course: It's why very few people want to be eighteen again. But the other side is having so much perspective, it's hard to give a damn about anything happening here in the real.
~ Amy Bloom