Quotes About Assertiveness

In the end, the actor's main power is the power to say, 'No.'

The European Union can now act like a major power, at least that is what the European Union tells us.

An actor has power, and their power is very simple: it's the power to say no.

Saying "no" has more creative power than ideas, insights and talent combined.

Whomever speaks first gives up some power.

Power for men means the ability to make things happen ... The female definition of power is the ability not to have to please.

you can't equate passive dependent power with assertive power because the dependent kind isn't fun, it doesn't give you a kick, it just allows you to survive.

If you adopt the body language of a power player, it will greatly facilitate your ability to be a power player.

It is the man who is sure of himself who disregards the opinion of the world. To be sure is to have power.

Being powerful is like being a lady. If you have to tell people you are, you aren't.

Maxon: "To be clear, no one agrees with you."America: "To be clear, I don't care.

The power you give others belongs to you. Take it back and take yourself where you would go.

I strike terror among men, I can't be bothered by what they think.

Maybe it frightened them, to admit that a woman could be master of her fate.

Stand up for yourself.Never give any one permission to abuse you.

If anyone tries to complicate your life, turn and walk away from them.

We like a man to come right out and say what he thinks- if we agree with him.

Keep away. The sow is mine.

Yeah, hello and good-bye," Karras growled. "Who are you and what the fuck are you doing in my room?

If you wish in this world to advance, Your merits you're bound to enhance; You must stir it and stump it, and blow your own trumpet. Or trust me, you haven't a chance.

The other often much prefers a clear answer, even if it is No, than continued indecision and waffling.

The assistant stayed away from the job—withdrew her cooperation—until the boss came to his senses and accepted her No to bullying (which was actually a Yes to respect).

Take Away Their Stick If the other's reaction to our No is to hurt or threaten us, our first instinct may be to hurt them back. A more effective strategy, however, is to neutralize the impact of their behavior. If, as in the story of the Zen master, they are threatening to hit you with a stick, don't hit them back; just take away the stick. In other words, don't attack the other, but simply remove their ability to attack you.

If you have an important point to make, don't try to be subtle or clever. Use a pile driver. Hit the point once. Then come back and hit it again. Then hit it a third time - a tremendous whack.