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Quotes About Community

Rumours don't usually get started without a reason. - Kurt Wallander
~ Henning Mankell
After all, the only thing we have left is friends. You can say that they are the last fortress to be defended.
~ Henning Mankell
They stopped in front of a two-storey brick building quintessentially Swedish, Linda thought. Wherever you go in this country the houses all look the same. The central square in Vasteras could be replaced withthe one in Orebro, this Skurup apartment building could as easily be in Sollentuna.
~ Henning Mankell
In our own woundedness, we can become sources of life for others.
~ Henri J.M. Nouwen
Our greatest fulfillment lies in giving ourselves to others.
~ Henri J.M. Nouwen
Much violence is based on the illusion that life is a property to be defended and not to be shared.
~ Henri J.M. Nouwen
real care means the willingness to help each other in making our brokenness into the gateway to joy.
~ Henri J.M. Nouwen
People who have come to know the joy of God do not deny the darkness, but they choose not to live in it. They claim that the light that shines in the darkness can be trusted more than the darkness itself and that a little bit of light can dispel a lot of darkness. They point each other to flashes of light here and there, and remind each other that they reveal the hidden but real presence of God.
~ Henri J.M. Nouwen
We become neighbors when we are willing to cross the road for one another. (...) There is a lot of road crossing to do. We are all very busy in our own circles. We have our own people to go to and our own affairs to take care of. But if we could cross the road once in a while and pay attention to what is happening on the other side, we might indeed become neighbors.
~ Henri J.M. Nouwen
preaching means more than handing over a tradition; it is rather the careful and sensitive articulation of what is happening in the community
~ Henri J.M. Nouwen
By prayer, community is created as well as expressed.
~ Henri J.M. Nouwen
It is my growing conviction that my life belongs to others just as much as it belongs to myself and that what is experienced as most unique often proves to be most solidly embedded in the common condition of being human.
~ Henri J.M. Nouwen
every Christian is constantly invited to overcome his neighbor's fear by entering into it with him, and to find in the fellowship of suffering the way to freedom.
~ Henri J.M. Nouwen
We want to live as people chosen, blessed, and broken, and thus become food for the world.
~ Henri J.M. Nouwen
Those you have deeply loved become part of you. The longer you live, there will always be more people to be loved by you and to become part of your inner community. The wider your inner community becomes, the more easily you will recognize your own brothers and sisters in the strangers around you.
~ Henri J.M. Nouwen
When we invite friends for a meal, we do much more than offer them food for their bodies. We offer friendship, fellowship, good conversation, intimacy, and closeness. When we say, 'Help yourself… take some more… don't be shy… have another glass…' we offer our guests not only our food and drink but also ourselves. A spiritual bond grows, and we become food and drink for one another.
~ Henri J.M. Nouwen
Loneliness is painful; Solitude is peaceful. Loneliness makes us cling to others in desperation; solitude allows us to respect others in their uniqueness and create community...
~ Henri J.M. Nouwen
The question that must guide all organizing activity in a parish is not how to keep people busy, but how to keep them from being so busy that they can no longer hear the voice of God who speaks in silence.
~ Henri J.M. Nouwen
You have to acknowledge where you are and affirm that place. You have to be willing to live your loneliness, your incompleteness, your lack of total incarnation fearlessly, and trust that God will give you the people to keep showing you the truth of who you are.
~ Henri J.M. Nouwen
We often live as if our happiness depended on having. But I don't know anyone who is really happy because of what he or she has. True joy, happiness, and inner peace come from the giving of ourselves to others. A happy life is a life for others. That truth, however, is usually discovered when we are confronted with our brokenness.
~ Henri J.M. Nouwen
Your way of being present to your community may require times of absence, prayer, writing, or solitude. These too are times for your community.
~ Henri J.M. Nouwen
it is precisely in this continuous process of confession and forgiveness that we are liberated from our isolation and encounter the possibility of a new disarmed way of living. Christians are peacemakers not when they apply some special skill to reconcile people with one another but when, by the confession of their brokenness, they form a community through which God's unlimited forgiveness is revealed to the world.
~ Henri J.M. Nouwen
Solitude is very different from a 'time-out' from our busy lives. Solitude is the very ground from which community grows. Whenever we pray alone, study, read, write, or simply spend quiet time away from the places where we interact with each other directly, we are potentially opened for a deeper intimacy with each other.
~ Henri J.M. Nouwen
Boredom, resentment, and depression are all sentiments of disconnectedness. They present life to us as a broken connection. They give us a sense of not-belonging. In interpersonal relations, this disconnectedness is experienced as loneliness. When we are lonely we perceive ourselves as isolated individuals surrounded, perhaps, by many people, but not really part of any supporting or nurturing community.
~ Henri J.M. Nouwen