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Quotes About Communication

Au début, quand un proche s'absente longtemps, on pense constamment à ce qu'on va lui raconter. On tâche de tout garder en mémoire. Mais autant essayer de retenir une poignée de sable : tous les grains finissent par s'échapper et il ne reste plus que de la terre et du vide, on ne peut jamais tout retenir. Résultat, quand on se revoit, on ne discute que de sujets sérieux. Les anecdotes sont impossibles à partager.
~ Jenny Han
I can see now that it's the little things, the small efforts, that keep a relationship going. And I know now that too in some small measure I have the power to hurt him and also the power to make it better.
~ Jenny Han
Wow," I said, and I tried to communicate happiness in that word, but I don't know if it came out that way. All I was feeling was despair. And envy. Envy so thick and so black I felt like I was choking on it.
~ Jenny Han
That letter you wrote
~ Jenny Han
I hate when people say that they have something to tell you and they don't just say it. It's like when people say they have a funny story —like, just hurry up and tell the story and I'll decide for myself if I think it's funny or not.
~ Jenny Han
But the important thing, the real thing, is Chris and I understand each other, which I think counts for a lot more than people realize.
~ Jenny Han
Relationships are hard work. You'll see. After you've been in it with Kavinsky longer, you'll see what I'm talking about." "Oh my God, you're such a know-it-all. The biggest know-it-all I ever met, besides my sister." "Which one?" I can feel a giggle bubbling up inside of me, which I push down. "Both. They're both know-it-alls.
~ Jenny Han
I hated it when he played the guitar. He'd sit there, strumming, halfway paying attention, only halfway present. He'd hum to himself, and he was someplace else. We'd be watching TV, or playing cards, and he'd be strumming the guitar. Or he'd be in his room, practicing. For what, I didn't know. All I knew was that it took time away from us.
~ Jenny Han
I don't want to be in a fight with him; I just want it to be fun and light the way it always is with us. I want him to at least still be my friend.
~ Jenny Han
Elaine and Mark don't know each other very well. The only thing those two have in common is me, and I get the feeling they're not crazy about each other. Well, it's more than just a feeling. Mark thinks Elaine talks too much, and
~ Jenny Han
Elaine and Mark don't know each other very well. The only thing those two have in common is me, and I get the feeling they're not crazy about each other. Well, it's more than just a feeling. Mark thinks Elaine talks too much, and Elaine thinks Mark is dull. The three of us don't hang
~ Jenny Han
I felt like bad for snapping at him.
~ Jenny Han
Taylor hacía lo que le apetecía y no le preocupaba mi opinión. Nunca le importaba lo que yo pensase. No era sólo culpa suya, porque yo se lo permitía.
~ Jenny Han
I don't think relationships are just about physicality. There are ways to show you care about someone, not just using your lips.
~ Jenny Han
want to say, he didn't come over and say hey because the two of you were too busy stuffing your faces with pizza and he didn't want to interrupt. But I don't dare. I can't afford to burn any bridges with those two. Once they decide to freeze you out, you're done for. I've seen it happen. I'm hanging off the side of a precipice as it is, and the only thing keeping me there is Elaine. I look at her, and she shakes her head slightly.
~ Jenny Han
How did I tell him that there was a piece saved for him, too?
~ Jenny Han
That's when I finally got it. I finally understood. It wasn't the thought that counted. It was the actual execution that mattered, the showing up for somebody. The intent behind it wasn't enough. Not for me. Not anymore. It wasn't enough to know that deep down, he loved me. You had to actually say it to somebody, show them that you cared. And he just didn't. Not enough.
~ Jenny Han
I suppose there's only one thing I can do. I'll write him another letter. A postscript with as any pages as it takes to X away whatever feelings I have left for him. I'll put this whole thing to rest, once and for all.
~ Jenny Han
I don't realize it until the words are actually out of my mouth, but I say it to hurt him.
~ Jenny Han
you have to scream out emotions; if you don't, they'll fester.
~ Jenny Han
How come you never dated anybody?" I shrug. "I don't know...because nobody ever asked?" "Bullshit. I know for a fact that Martinez asked you to homecoming and you said no.
~ Jenny Han
Lucas, I hate when people say that they have something to tell you and they don't just say it. It's like when people say they have a funny story—like, just hurry up and tell the story and I'll decide for myself if I think it's funny or not.
~ Jenny Han
Taylor was the crappy friend, not me. She was the selfish one.
~ Jenny Han
I'm sorry you got that letter. You were never supposed to see that. It wasn't meant for you to ever read. It was just for me.
~ Jenny Han