Quotes About Resolution

It is a terrible feeling to have to say goodbye to someone who so badly wants to make it work.

I feel like anything can be worked out; you just gotta talk through it as adults.

I would like to think that enough examples of non-compromise are going to start people thinking that there must be a better way to try to govern the country.

I don't know how you can govern without ever compromising.

The Governor's Office is going to get out of the litigation business.

Grandpa didn't have any idea of customer service. But he wanted to make a living. Eventually, we saw it was not in our best interest to be arguing with customers.

There's something to play if there's conflict going on. Whatever that conflict is, that's where drama is; if the character is grappling with something you've got something to play, there's layers to it.

It seems that the greatest difficulty is to find the end. Don't try to find it, it's there already.

But you've got to understand what the other guy is about, even if at the end of the process you decide that there is no ground with this man or woman except to fight them.

Kit: I didn't mean that. I'm sorry. Neil: I know. Kit: I mean I didn't mean the bit about it bein' better if they'd killed you. I meant the rest. Neil: It's okay, Kathy. I know. -Heartland

Sometimes the exacerbating factor is so acute that it can render the direct solution nearly useless—but solving the exacerbating factor is always inadequate in the absence of the direct solution.

A soft answer turns away anger.

The desire for reconciliation is often more potent than the desire for justice. The more intimate the relationship, the deeper the desire for reconciliation.

Angry people need someone who cares enough to listen long enough to understand the pain. They need someone who listens carefully enough to identify with the person's anger, wisely enough to express understanding, and courageously enough to respond with a gentle, truthful answer—an answer that seeks resolution of the issue that gave rise to the anger.

Busque o entendimento e a reconciliação, em vez de impor sua percepção pessoal como a única maneira lógica de interpretar a situação.

A hot-tempered person starts fights; a cool-tempered person stops them. —Proverbs 15:18

Fifth, agree to seek a resolution.

we must choose our battles carefully. Some things are not worth fighting over, and some things are clearly not our battles.

responses from a loving heart diffuse the most explosive situations. — Jeanette Gardner Littleton

Sixth, agree to affirm your love for each other. After the anger is resolved, tell each other of your love.

If your child is using some of the negative behavioral responses to anger, such as pushing, shoving, and throwing objects, focus on the anger first and the behavior second. You might say, "It's obvious that you are very angry. I would like to hear what's bothering you, but we can't talk while you are _________. Would you like for us to take a walk and talk about it?

We know intellectually that we will eventually have differences. But we are certain that we will discuss those differences openly; one of us will always be willing to make concessions, and we will reach agreement.

Forgiveness presupposes that a wrong has been commmitted. Irritations do not call for forgiveness, rather they call for negotiations

What would be workable for you?" is a good place to begin. Now we are focusing on resolution rather than differences. Two adults looking for a solution are likely to find one. Father, this question—What would be workable for you?—is eye opening. How often I waste time trying to convince my spouse that my way is right. Please help me instead to join with him or her in looking for a solution that works for both of us. Thank you for making us both unique.