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Quotes About Acceptance

It's helpful to always remind yourself that meditation is about opening and relaxing withwhatever arises, without picking and choosing.
~ Pema Chodron
Cultivating absolute bodhichitta means having a relationship with the world that is nonconceptual, that is unprejudiced, having a direct, unedited relationship with reality.
~ Pema Chodron
A warrior accepts that we can never know what will happen to us next. We can try to control the uncontrollable by looking for security and predictability, always hoping to be comfortable and safe. But the truth is that we can never avoid uncertainty. This not-knowing is part of the adventure. It's also what makes us afraid.
~ Pema Chodron
We're able to see how we run and hide and keep ourselves busy so that we never have to let our hearts be penetrated.
~ Pema Chodron
In the early seventies, a friend kept saying to me, 'Whatever you do, don't try to make those feelings go away.' His advice went on: 'anything you can learn about working with your sense of discouragement or your sense of fear or your sense of bewilderment - anything you can do to work with those things - do it., please, because it will be such an inspiration to other people.
~ Pema Chodron
So the next time you encounter fear, consider yourself lucky. This is where the courage comes in. Usually we think that brave people have no fear. The truth is that they are intimate with fear.
~ Pema Chodron
When we regard thoughts and emotions with humor and openness, that's how we perceive the universe.
~ Pema Chodron
BY WEAVING our opinions, prejudices, strategies, and emotions into a solid reality, we try to make a big deal out of ourselves, out of our pain, out of our problems. But things are not as solid, predictable, or seamless as they seem.
~ Pema Chodron
getting to know fear, becoming familiar with fear, looking it right in the eye—not as a way to solve problems, but as a complete undoing of old ways of seeing, hearing, smelling, tasting, and thinking.
~ Pema Chodron
Because we mistake what is impermanent to be permanent, we suffer.
~ Pema Chodron
Each situation, each thought, each word, each feeling, is just a passing memory.
~ Pema Chodron
If you are interested in these teachings, then you have to accept the fact that you're never going to get it all together." It was a shocking statement to me. He said with a lot of clarity, "You are never going to get it all together, you're never going to get your act together, fully, completely. You're never going to get all the little loose ends tied up.
~ Pema Chodron
You breathe in so that you can really understand what the Buddha meant when he said that the first noble truth is that life is suffering. What does that mean? With every in-breath, you try to find out by acknowledging the truth of suffering, not as a mistake you made, not as a punishment, but as part of the human condition. With every in-breath, you explore the discomfort of the human condition, which can be acknowledged and celebrated and not run away from. Tonglen
~ Pema Chodron
Thoughts, emotions, moods, and memories come and they go, and basic nowness is always here.
~ Pema Chodron
Rather than trying to get rid of something or buying into a dualistic sense of being attacked, we take the opportunity to see how we close down when we're squeezed.
~ Pema Chodron
Todos nosotros somos en ocasiones un caso perdido.
~ Pema Chodron
suffering is inevitable for human beings as long as we believe that things last—that they don't disintegrate, that they can be counted on to satisfy our hunger for security.
~ Pema Chodron
the Goal WHAT DOES IT TAKE to use the life we already have in order to make us wiser rather than more stuck? What is the source of wisdom at a personal, individual level? The answer to these questions seems to have to do with bringing everything that we encounter to the path. Everything
~ Pema Chodron
we are all addicted to avoiding pain.
~ Pema Chodron
By learning to relax with groundlessness, we gradually connect with the mind that knows no fear.
~ Pema Chodron
Love. Buddha nature. Courage. These are code words for things we don't know in our minds, but any of us could experience them. These are words that point to what life really is when we let things fall apart and let ourselves be nailed to the present moment.
~ Pema Chodron
Tú eres el cielo. Todo lo demás es solo el clima
~ Pema Chodron
Podemos toparnos con un perro de lanas o con un furioso perro guardián, pero lo interesante es: ¿qué ocurre a continuación?
~ Pema Chodron
We start with ourselves. We make ourselves right or we make ourselves wrong, every day, every week, every month and year of our lives. We feel that we have to be right so that we can feel good. We don't want to be wrong because then we'll feel bad. But we could be more compassionate toward all these parts of ourselves.
~ Pema Chodron