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Quotes About Acceptance

Violet smiles back.Immediately,I feel better,because she feels better and because of the way she smiles at me,as if I'm not something to be avoided.
~ Jennifer Niven
I know life well enough to know you can't count on things staying around or standing still, no matter how much you want them to. You can't stop people from dying. You can't stop them from going away. You can't stop yourself from going away either.
~ Jennifer Niven
Libby Strout, you deserve to be seen.
~ Jennifer Niven
I am broken and no one can fix it
~ Jennifer Niven
these kids who never did anything to anyone except be born with different brains and different wiring
~ Jennifer Niven
Maybe it's better that she's locked away from the rest of the world. Maybe she's not cut out to live like other people with other people. Maybe she belongs in that house forever.
~ Jennifer Niven
All this time, I thought it was her weight that made me see her. But it's not her weight at all. It's her.
~ Jennifer Niven
Your hope lies in accepting your life as is now lies before you, forever changed. If you can do that, the peace you seek will follow.
~ Jennifer Niven
I know life well enough to know you can't count on things staying around or standing still, no matter how much you want them to.
~ Jennifer Niven
You have you let the tears come," she always says. "Because if you don't, they'll come out eventually – maybe not as tears, but as anger or something else.
~ Jennifer Niven
I take a good long look at her. I know life well enough to know you can't count on things staying around or standing still, no matter how much you want them to. You can't stop people from dying. You can't stop them from going away. You can't stop yourself from going away either. I know myself well enough to know that no one else can keep you awake or keep you from sleeping. That's all on me too. But man, I like this girl.
~ Jennifer Niven
If hypothetically, I did love you, though, it's not because I see you, and Oh well, at least I can see her, so I might as well love her. I'm pretty sure I see you because I love you. And yeah, I guess I love you because I see you, as in I see you, Libby, as in all of you, as in every last amazing thing.
~ Jennifer Niven
Except that only small people- the inside-small kind- don't like you to be big.
~ Jennifer Niven
This girl," I tell Rachel. "That's not what I look like. That's not who I am." I have a feeling Rachel will get this because she pretended to be straight all through high school, even though she figured out she was a lesbian when she was in eighth grade. I say it again, "That's not me." Her eyes light up. "Great. Let's see if we can find her.
~ Jennifer Niven
She was my best friend." "I've never had one. What's it like?" "I don't know. I guess you can be yourself, whatever that means—the best and the worst of you. And they love you anyway. You can fight, but even when you're mad at them, you know they're not going to stop being your friend.
~ Jennifer Niven
Sometimes things end, even if you don't want them to.
~ Jennifer Niven
I've never realised how hard we are on our bodies. I think, Why are we so mean to ourselves? Why aren't we happy with what we have?
~ Jennifer Niven
I don't want to hear about the cardinal again. Because the thing of it is, that cardinal was dead either way, whether he came inside or not. Maybe he knew it, and maybe that's why he decided to crash into the glass a little harder than normal that day. He would have died in here, only slower, because that's what happens when you're a Finch. The marriage dies. The love dies. The people fade away. I
~ Jennifer Niven
I know life well enough to know you can't count on things staying around or standing still, no matter how much you want them to.
~ Jennifer Niven
I'm sorry. I love you. But not sorry I love you because I could never be sorry for that.
~ Jennifer Niven
I want to get away from the stigma they all clearly feel just because they have a n illness of the mind as opposed to, say, an illness of the lungs or blood. I want to get away from all the labels, "I'm OCD," "I'm depressed," "I'm a cutter," they say, like these are the things that define them.
~ Jennifer Niven
You can't do this to me. You were the one who lectured me about living. You were the one who said I had to get out and see what was right in front of me and make the most of it and not wish my time away and find my mountain because my mountain was waiting, and all that adds up to life. But then you leave. You can't just do that. Especially when you know what I went through losing Eleanor.
~ Jennifer Niven
You dress to please yourself. If she doesn't like you for you, then you don't need her.' All of this would be fine if I knew exactly who me for me was.
~ Jennifer Niven
I know life well enough to know you can't count on things staying around or standing still, no matter how much you want them to. You can't stop people from dying. You can't stop them from going away. You can't stop yourself from going away either. I know myself well enough to know that no one else can keep you awake or keep you from sleeping.
~ Jennifer Niven