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Quotes About Relationships

Women have this deep instinctive need to build a man up as a man. I suppose this is because real men become fewer and fewer, and we are frightened, trying to create a man.
~ Doris Lessing
We have no children Harriet. Or, rather, I have no children. You have one child.
~ Doris Lessing
Oh, I simply can't think. When I really want to depress myself, I think of all the brilliant men I know, married to their stupid wives. Enough to break your heart, it really is
~ Doris Lessing
All you girls get married, you have no strength of mind at all. I really do feel that all this sex is overrated, don't you?' 'I don't know,' said Martha humorously, 'I haven't tried yet.' But he would not accept the humour. He pressed her arm urgently, and looked down into her face and insisted, 'Well, don't you think so? All you girls want to be made love to, and really…' His face faded in disgust.
~ Doris Lessing
Oh, I simply can't think. When I really want to depress myself, I think of all the brilliant men I know, married to their stupid wives. Enough to break your heart, it really is. So
~ Doris Lessing
If one person has loved another truly and wholly, then it is more than love that collapses when one side of the indissoluble partnership turns away with a tearful goodbye.
~ Doris Lessing
There is absolutely nothing like love for showing how many different people can live inside one skin.
~ Doris Lessing
There is no such thing as a frigid woman, there are only incompetent men.
~ Doris Lessing
I think people need other people to be kind to them.
~ Doris Lessing
It's a hard case,' said Paul. 'First, I'm twenty. That means I'm very nervous and ill-at-ease with women. Second, I'm twenty. I have all my life before me, and frankly the prospect often appals me. Thirdly, I'm twenty, and I'm in love with Anna and my heart is breaking.
~ Doris Lessing
There are as many shades of being in love as there are graduations of colour on cards in the paint shop.
~ Doris Lessing
I've got a man might do. No good for me, doesn't care for a flutter, and doesn't like Art either. But he has Proust in his overcoat pocket. Come to think of it, I suppose he reads it for the dirt, so no good for you, cancel what I said.
~ Doris Lessing
It's a fact that men of all nations are convinced that men of any other nation are no good for women. I'm sure a statistically significant number of women would be able to vouch for this. And listen how you talk. You are bitter already. When I hear a woman use words like statistics, I know she is bitter.
~ Doris Lessing
But you know how it is—it's always that moment, when a man looks all wounded in his masculinity, one can't bear it, one needs to bolster him up." "Yes, but they just kick us afterwards as hard as they can, so why do we do it?" "Yes, but I never seem to learn.
~ Doris Lessing
For she is remembering Paul's saying: There is no such thing as a frigid woman, there are only incompetent men.
~ Doris Lessing
When a woman begins making love with a new man, a creature is born in her - of emotional and sexual responses that grows in its own laws, its own logic.
~ Doris Lessing
Then the man goes to the woman and says: I love you. And she says, in terror: What do you mean? He says: I love you. So she embraces him, and he moves away, with nervous haste, and she says: Why did you say you loved me? And he says: I wanted to hear how it would sound. And she says: But I love you, I love you, I love you – and he goes off to the very edge of the roof and stands there, ready to jump – he will jump if she says even once again: I love you
~ Doris Lessing
I think we conjure up and invent people, and then whoever happens to be there is the recipient of our imagination. A good deal of the attraction between people, I think, is based on the fact that one is able to absorb the creation
~ Dorothea Lange
Twenty years after we had left so fierce and proud, we were all right back where we had started, yoked to each other and the same old drama.
~ Dorothy Allison
We had all wanted the simplest thing, to love and be loved and be safe together, but we had lost it and I didn't know how to get it back.
~ Dorothy Allison
When I finally let someone into my narrow bed, the first thing I told her was what I could not do. I said, I can't fix it, girl. I can't fix anything. If you don't as me to fix it, you can ask anything else. If you can say what you need, I'll try to give it to you.
~ Dorothy Allison
Romantic love continues the status quo in which we both are victimized and victimize each other.
~ Dorothy Allison
They looked young, even Nevil, who'd had his teeth knocked out, while the aunts—Ruth, Raylene, Alma, and even Mama—seemed old, worn-down, and slow, born to mother, nurse, and clean up after the men.
~ Dorothy Allison
The women I loved most in the world horrified me. I did not want to grow up to be them.
~ Dorothy Allison