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Quotes About Relationships

It seems to me that trying to live without friends is like milking a bear to get cream for your morning coffee. It is a whole lot of trouble, and then not worth much after you get it.
~ Zora Neale Hurston
There is two things everybody got to find out for theirselves. They got to find out about love and they got to find out about living.
~ Zora Neale Hurston
Make the attempt if you want to, but you will find that trying to go through life without friendship, is like milking a bear to get cream for your morning coffee. It is a whole lot of trouble, and then not worth much after you get it.
~ Zora Neale Hurston
Tea Cake, the son of the Evening Sun, had to die for loving her.
~ Zora Neale Hurston
it seems that tears and laughter, love and hate, make up the sum of life!
~ Zora Neale Hurston
When one is too old for love, one finds great comfort in good dinners.
~ Zora Neale Hurston
She must talk to a man who was ten immensities away.
~ Zora Neale Hurston
Husbands and wives always loved each other, and that was what marriage meant. It was just so. Janie felt glad of the thought, for then it wouldn't seem so destructive and mouldy. She wouldn't be lonely anymore.
~ Zora Neale Hurston
Dis love! Dat's just whut's got us uh pullin' and haulin' and sweatin' and doin' from can't see in de mornin' till can't see at night. Nanny to Janie
~ Zora Neale Hurston
Long before the year was up, Janie noticed that her husband had stopped talkin to he rin rhymes.
~ Zora Neale Hurston
There's two things everybody got to find out for theyselves; they got to find out about love, and they got to find out about living.
~ Zora Neale Hurston
Now they got to look into me loving Tea Cake and see whether it was done right or not! They don't know if life is a mess of corn-meal dumplings, and if love is a bed-quilt!
~ Zora Neale Hurston
you needs uh man." Janie laughed at all these well-wishers because she knew that they knew plenty of women alone; that she was not the first one they had ever seen. But most of the others were poor. Besides she liked being lonesome for a change. This freedom feeling was fine. These men didn't represent a thing she wanted to know about. She had already experienced them...
~ Zora Neale Hurston
Things lak dat got uh whole lot tuh do wid convenience, but it ain't got nothin' tuh do wid love.
~ Zora Neale Hurston
Those who love us never leave us alone with our grief. At the moment they show us our wound, they reveal they have the medicine. Barracoon: The Story of the Last "Black Cargo" is a perfect example of this.
~ Zora Neale Hurston
She hated the old woman who had twisted her so in the name of love. Most humans didn't love one another nohow, and this mislove was so strong that even common blood couldn't overcome it all the time.
~ Zora Neale Hurston
He ain't kissin' yo' mouf when he carry on over yuh lak dat. He's kissin' yo' foot and 'tain't in uh man tuh kiss foot long. Mouf kissin' is on uh equal and dat's natural but when dey got to bow down tuh love, dey soon straightens up.
~ Zora Neale Hurston
So den we gittee married by de license, but I doan love my wife no mo' wid de license than I love her befo' de license. She a good woman and I love her all de time. (Oluale Kossula)
~ Zora Neale Hurston
Naw, it's real. Ah couldn't stand it if he wuz tuh quit me. Don't know whut Ah'd do. He kin take most any lil thing and make summertime out of it when times is dull. Then we lives offa dat happiness he made till some mo' happiness come along.
~ Zora Neale Hurston
There are years that ask questions and years that answer. Janie had had no chance to know things, so she had to ask. Did marriage end the cosmic loneliness of the unmated? Did marriage compel love like the sun the day? In
~ Zora Neale Hurston
Before the week was over he had whipped Janie. Not because her behavior justified his jealousy, but it relieved that awful fear inside him. Being able to whip her reassured him in possession.
~ Zora Neale Hurston
She found that she had a host of thoughts she had never expressed to him, and numerous emotions she had never let Jody know about. Things packed up and put away in parts of her heart where he could never find them. She was saving up feelings for some man she had never seen. She had an inside and an outside now and suddenly she knew how not to mix them.
~ Zora Neale Hurston
But mostly she lived between her hat and her heels, with her emotional disturbances like shade patterns in the woods—come and gone with the sun. She got nothing from Jody except what money could buy, and she was giving away what she didn't value.
~ Zora Neale Hurston
Besides she liked being lonesome for a change. This freedom feeling was fine. These men didn't represent a thing she wanted to know about. She had already experienced them through Logan and Joe. She felt like slapping some of them for sitting around grinning at her like a pack of cheesy cats, trying to make out they looked like love.
~ Zora Neale Hurston