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Quotes About Relationships

It seems impossible to live without hurting people.
~ Matt Haig
Facebook is where everyone lies to their friends. Twitter is where they tell the truth to strangers.
~ Matt Haig
he believed that the more people were connected on social media, the lonelier society became. 'That's why everyone hates each other nowadays,' he reckoned. 'Because they are overloaded with non-friend friends.
~ Matt Haig
Words – spoken or written – are what connect us to the world, and so speaking about it to people, and writing about this stuff, helps connect us to each other, and to our true selves.
~ Matt Haig
Don't attach yourself to people, and try to feel as little as you possibly can for those you do meet. Because otherwise you will slowly lose your mind
~ Matt Haig
I've let people down. I haven't always been easy. I've done things I regret. I was a bad wife. Not always a good mother, either. People have given up a little on me, and I don't entirely blame them.
~ Matt Haig
Love is what the humans are all about but they don't understand it. If they understood it, then it would disappear.
~ Matt Haig
It was hard not to compare Mrs Elm to her mother, who treated Nora like a mistake in need of correction.
~ Matt Haig
her mother touch my hand and say, 'If there is such a thing as good marriage, it is because it resembles friendship rather than love.
~ Matt Haig
Love was trapping me here.
~ Matt Haig
the thing that had left her vulnerable, really, was the absence of love.
~ Matt Haig
That's why everyone hates each other nowadays,' he reckoned. 'Because they are overloaded with non-friends friends.
~ Matt Haig
Still staring blankly at The Book of Regrets, she wondered if her parents had ever been in love or if they had got married because marriage was something you did at the appropriate time with the nearest available person. A game where you grabbed the first person you could find when the music stopped.
~ Matt Haig
For small creatures such as we the vastness is bearable only through love. —CARL SAGAN
~ Matt Haig
A kind of timidity can set in with familiarity. A fear of change. We can end up stuck in jobs we don't like, in unhealthy relationships, with similar unhelpful attitudes. We call this the "comfort zone" but often it is the opposite. A discomfort zone, a stagnation zone, an unfulfilled zone
~ Matt Haig
The kind that could only be possible in someone who was going to die at some point in the future, and also someone who had lived enough to know that loving and being loved back was a hard thing to get right, but when you managed it, you could see forever.
~ Matt Haig
A world where, in the words of American sociologist Sherry Turkle, "we expect more from technology and less from each other.
~ Matt Haig
It's okay to let people find you. You don't have to spread yourself so thin you become invisible. You don't have to always be the person reaching out. You can sometimes allow yourself to be reached. As the great writer Anne Lamott puts it: "Lighthouses don't go running all over an island for boats to save; they just stand there shining.
~ Matt Haig
when you know it is possible for you to feel pain you have no control over. You become vulnerable. Because the possibility of pain is where love stems from.
~ Matt Haig
Life wasn't ever one ingredient. It was several. And some flavors were bad and some were good, but love was the strongest of all. If you were loved, you had everything.
~ Matt Haig
So why do we bother with love? No matter how much we love someone we are never going to make them, or ourselves, free of pain.
~ Matt Haig
Answer emails while I should be listening to my mum talk about her trip to see a doctor. Feel the empty joy of likes and favorites.
~ Matt Haig
he believed that the more people were connected on social media, the lonelier society became. 'That's why everyone hates each other nowadays,' he reckoned. 'Because they are overloaded with non-friend friends. Ever heard about Dunbar's number?
~ Matt Haig
If, as Schopenhauer said, "we forfeit three-fourths of ourselves in order to be like other people," then love—at its best—is a way to reclaim those lost parts of ourselves. That freedom we lost somewhere quite early in childhood. Maybe love is just about finding the person you can be your weird self with.
~ Matt Haig