Quotes About Calmness

It's easy to see when our kids aren't integrated—they become overwhelmed by their emotions, confused and chaotic. They can't respond calmly and capably to the situation at hand. Tantrums, meltdowns, aggression, and most of the other challenging experiences of parenting—and life—are a result of a loss of integration, also known as dis-integration.

Watch for ways to help your children learn to be still and calm at times and find the deep-ocean peacefulness within their hub. From there they'll be better able to survive the storms brewing within them from moment to moment, and they'll have a better chance of thriving—emotionally, psychologically, socially—as they grow toward adulthood.

veces necesitamos aguardar a que los niños estén listos para aprender. Si los niños se encuentran alterados o descontrolados, es el peor momento para intentar enseñarles nada. De hecho, estas emociones intensas evidencian que nos necesitan. Nuestra primera tarea es ayudarles a tranquilizarse para que recuperen el control y sepan dominarse. Si

queremos ayudarles a estar preparados para aprender, hay que conectar con ellos. Antes de redirigir su conducta, hay que conectar y consolar. Si los calmamos cuando se hacen alguna herida física, también hemos de ayudarles cuando están emocionalmente trastornados. Y lo haremos validando sus sentimientos y dándoles muchísima empatía enriquecedora. Antes de enseñar, hemos de conectar.

Violence is my last option.

Music has the power to divert the violent minds.

The ballplayer who loses his head, who can't keep his cool, is worse than no ballplayer at all.

Just a perfect day, problems all left alone.

What can you do to "cool off"? Take a deep breath and say a little prayer. Ask God to cool your temper and simply show you what to do next—like mop up the milk, pick up the pencil again, and wipe your face. Learning to let God help you keep your cool during the little stuff makes it easier to keep your cool when the big things come around.

The thing to do, once you know you are lost, is to find a good, safe place to build a little fire, build it, fire three shots, light a cigarette, and sit down and wait.

Impatience is only another form of resistance. It

The deferring of anger is the best antidote to anger.

He Just Rode In On Your Wagon. Calm Your Horses ~ Anna

How do the people around you react to the sparks of life? Are they fire lighters who blow things up, or firefighters who calm things down?

Sometimes you have to stop worrying, wondering, and doubting and just have faith that things will work out.

Silence is medication for sorrow.

Sometimes you don't need to be brave in difficult situations. Sometimes you just need to have patience.

Should you desire the great tranquility prepare to sweat white beads.

Be not for ever harassed by impotent desire.

When I start a movie, the first day, I feel like a duck.

I'm a guy that likes to sit in one place.

The real voice is stiller and smaller and seems to know, without confusion, the difference between right and wrong and the subtle delineation between the beautiful and profane. It's not an agitated voice, but ever patient as though it approves a million false starts. The voice I am talking about is a deep water of calming wisdom.

Brunetti watched Cesco trying to decide whether to say something else, so he made himself look as much like an oak tree as possible: patient, motionless, secure.

She was a masterpiece of composure; nothing ever ruffled her or made her upset, and though she was not beautiful her calmness had the magnetic pull of beauty- a stillness so powerful that the molecules realigned themselves around her when she came into a room. Like a fashion drawing come to life, she turned heads wherever she went, gliding along obliviously without appearing to notice the turbulence she created in her wake.