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Quotes About Dialogue

Teaching is mostly listening, and learning is mostly telling.
~ Deborah Meier
When two intelligent parties disagree, that's when the potential for learning and moving ahead begins.
~ Ray Dalio
I'm glad I understand that while language is a gift, listening is a responsibility. (U.S. poet and writer, 1943- )
~ Nikki Giovanni
Thinking and spoken discourse are the same thing, except that what we call thinking is, precisely, the inward dialogue carried on by the mind with itself without spoken sound.
~ Plato
Listening is not only about waiting, but it's also learning how better to ask questions.
~ Jacqueline Novogratz
Most people do not listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intent to reply.
~ Stephen Covey
We are playwrights in that we spontaneously compose and direct dialogue, acting out various roles of a nurturer, an authority, or a character from a client's life.
~ Jeffrey A. Kottler
entails a warm reception and not a preemptive condemnation. To dialogue, one must know how to lower the defenses, to open the doors of one's home and to offer warmth.
~ Jeffrey A. Krames
Try asking instead of telling, understanding instead of responding, listening instead of talking.
~ Jeffrey Gitomer
If more open-minded Christians, Jews, and Muslims were to sit down at a round table to try to achieve the holy grail of peace and unity, they would certainly have to be people of vision, willing to compromise.
~ Jeffrey J. Bütz
The best way to engage honestly with the marketplace via Twitter is to never use the words "engage," "honestly," or "marketplace.
~ Jeffrey Zeldman
But even if we disagree, perhaps even strongly, it is still possible to hold a civil dialogue where ideas find their way out into the open.
~ Jen Hatmaker
We must waive the lecture and embrace listening. What are they actually saying? What is confusing to them? What do they think? Where is the rub? Let's hear them, then engage them... Kids want to be mentored, not ruled.
~ Jen Hatmaker
Some useful statements to pocket to create safe spaces for discussion: Tell me more about that. Tell me how your thoughts progressed in this. I appreciate your experience with this. I'm listening. I hear what you are saying. I would love to learn from you. I care about how you feel and your perspective here. I understand that. I identify with
~ Jen Hatmaker
Stop yelling. If everyone's yelling, no one can be heard.
~ Jennifer Donnelly
You know the expression," Eddie said. " 'Don't write if you can talk, and don't talk if you can nod.' " Styles was delighted. "A mick said that.
~ Jennifer Egan
You know the expression," Eddie said. " 'Don't write if you can talk, and don't talk if you can nod.' " Styles was delighted. "A mick said that." Eddie winked.
~ Jennifer Egan
I didn't want to spoil the mood. This was probably the longest Daemon and I had ever spoken without some statement earning him the finger.
~ Jennifer L. Armentrout
Keer-ukso looked up at the sky in mock irritation. "No, do not ask me, best friend and busiess partner, if I want coffee?
~ Jennifer L. Holm
Sterling turned to Michael. I expected her to ask him something, but instead she just held out her hand. "Keys." "Spatula," Michael replied. She narrowed her eyes at him. "We aren't just saying random nouns?" he asked archly.
~ Jennifer Lynn Barnes
All the information you need can be given in dialogue.
~ Elmore Leonard
but he knew by the way the man was looking at him his words had been wasted. "I'm going up the mountain," Tanner said.
~ Elmore Leonard
And they wandered side by side, each talking at the top of his voice, for his own benefit, as the stars grew paler and paler in the morning sky. (51)
~ Émile Zola
Is it that they think it a duty to be continually talking,' pursued she: 'and so never pause to think, but fill up with aimless trifles and vain repetitions when subjects of real interest fail to present themselves, or do they really take a pleasure in such discourse?
~ Emily Bronte