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Quotes About Pain

In order to become whole we must try, in a long process, to discover our own personal truth, a truth that may cause pain before giving us a new sphere of freedom. If we choose instead to content ourselves with intellectual "wisdom," we will remain in the sphere of illusion and self-deception.
~ Alice Miller
Depression as Denial of the Self Depression consists of a denial of one's own emotional reactions. This denial begins in the service of an absolutely essential adaptation during childhood and indicates a very early injury. There are many children who have not been free, right from the beginning, to experience the very simplest of feelings, such as discontent, anger, rage, pain, even hunger—and, of course, enjoyment of their own bodies.
~ Alice Miller
Because if she let go of her grief even for a minute it would only hit her harder when she bumped into it again.
~ Alice Munro
Abolish these categories of pain (or is it love) Let it all be one pain Pain swallows itself, dies like a star.
~ Alice Notley
Gee whiz, it's all fucking heart- breaking
~ Alice Notley
You're too lazy, passive to suffer. I do that for you too.
~ Alice Notley
Are you in pain, my darling? There's no pain here but the psychic; you're afloat in a blood-sticky unuttered scream.
~ Alice Notley
You were sick, so sick, with your wound of thwarted longing
~ Alice Notley
I only remember that it all hurt.
~ Alice Notley
But there's a pain in lack of reasons.
~ Alice Notley
I'm sickened by all the suffering I'm aware of.
~ Alice Notley
I want to know why my loves had to die.
~ Alice Notley
I can't love you. Why are you like this? Why did you hate me and make me hate you?
~ Alice Notley
I won't read this after I've written it, any kind of past life pains me now
~ Alice Notley
Hurts so—That's just loss. This hole within—
~ Alice Notley
The edges of your wound surround a void
~ Alice Notley
Time exists to be brutal in.
~ Alice Notley
Don't ever speak to me from ecstasy, my life is broken.
~ Alice Notley
I'm hungry, I'm sick, I'm wounded.
~ Alice Notley
How much have you suffered? It isn't just, is it? No it's not
~ Alice Notley
How much anguish can you tolerate?
~ Alice Notley
I don't have a casual life, but exist to be possessed by misery, grace, or laughter.
~ Alice Notley
I always speak to myself no more myself but a colander draining the sound from this never-to-be-mentioned wound
~ Alice Oswald
being dragged along crippled over things as if broken-winged
~ Alice Oswald