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Quotes About Disappointment

If you look around to find meaning in everything that happens, you will end up disappointed. Sometimes there aren't reasons behind the terrible things that go on.
~ Adriana Trigiani
Old age was a box of surprises and not the good kind.
~ Adriana Trigiani
You have used me strangely.
~ Aeschylus
THE FOX AND THE GRAPES A hungry Fox saw some fine bunches of Grapes hanging from a vine that was trained along a high trellis, and did his best to reach them by jumping as high as he could into the air. But it was all in vain, for they were just out of reach: so he gave up trying, and walked away with an air of dignity and unconcern, remarking, I thought those Grapes were ripe, but I see now they are quite sour.
~ Aesop
I am sure the grapes are sour.
~ Aesop
I thought these grapes were ripe, but I see now they are quite sour.
~ Aesop
Tell me, if you thought a man had a tendresse for you, but he wasn't doing anything about it. And you wanted to hurry him up a little so you made a move, an unmistakable move; one that nobody could pretend had been a misunderstanding. And he - he ignored it - ignored you. What would you feel?
~ Ahdaf Soueif
I don't think so, I don't agree. The most unbearable thing I think by far, she said, is hope.
~ Aimee Bender
He said, I always thought the woman I'd marry would hit me easy, in a bolt of lightning, and there is not lightning there is not even thunder there is not even rain.
~ Aimee Bender
What kills us isn't one big thing, but thousands of tiny obligations we can't turn down for fear of disappointing others.
~ Alain de Botton
at the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish with an unyielding reality.
~ Alain de Botton
When you feel sad, you are participating in a venerable experience, to which I, this monument, am dedicated. Your sense of loss and disappointment, of frustrated hopes and grief at your own inadequacy, elevate you to serious company. Do not ignore of throw away your grief
~ Alain de Botton
We can claim to have begun to know someone only when they have substantially disappointed us.
~ Alain de Botton
It is the most ambitious and driven among us who are the most sorely in need of having our reckless hopes dampened through immersive dousings in the darkness which religions have explored. This is a particular priority for secular Americans, perhaps the most anxious and disappointed people on earth, for their nation infuses them with the most extreme hopes about what they may be able to achieve in their working lives and relationships.
~ Alain de Botton
Melancholy isn't always a disorder that needs to be cured. It can be a species of intelligent grief which arises when we come face-to-face with the certainty that disappointment is written into the script from the start.
~ Alain de Botton
Adulthood involves learning to conclusively bury a great many of our hopes.
~ Alain de Botton
The love of flowers is a consequence of modesty and an accommodation with disappointment. Some things need to go permanently wrong before we can start to admire the stem of a rose or the petals of a bluebell.
~ Alain de Botton
We aren't overwhelmed by anger whenever we are frustrated; only when we first believed ourselves entitled to a particular satisfaction and then did not receive it.
~ Alain de Botton
Maturity' really means: being very unsurprised by, and calm around, pain and disappointment.
~ Alain de Botton
A spouse who gets angry at having been betrayed is evading a basic, tragic truth: that no one can be everything to another person.
~ Alain de Botton
We are not always humiliated by failing at things, he suggested; we are humiliated only if we invest our pride and sense of worth in a given aspiration or achievement and then are disappointed in our pursuit of it.
~ Alain de Botton
The love of flowers is a consequence of modesty and an accommodation with disappointment...Held up against certain ideals of success, his life has been a deep disappointment. But he can also see that it is, in the end, no great achievement simply to fixate on the failure. There is valour in being able to identify a forgiving, hopeful perspective on one's life, in knowing how to be a friend to oneself, because one has a responsibility to others to endure.
~ Alain de Botton
Human beings sometimes interest me but I don't like them because they are not intelligent enough.
~ Alain de Botton
Melancholy isn't always a disorder that needs to be cured. It can be a species of intelligent grief which arises when we come face-to-face with the certainty that disappointment is written into the script from the start.
~ Alain de Botton