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Quotes About Self

Anger is a tool for change when it challenges us to become more of an expert on the self and less of an expert on others.
~ Harriet Lerner
People never really reinvent themselves. They migrate back to whatever they truly were.
~ Harry Bingham
It's no good living in a world at peace if your own head is at war with itself.
~ Harry Bingham
She was disgusted with herself...and the disgust permanently cured her of suicide. Her piddling life did not deserve dramatic remedies.
~ Harry Mathews
No matter what they wish for, no matter how far they go, people can never be anything but themselves. That's all.
~ Haruki Murakami
No matter how far you travel, you can never get away from yourself.
~ Haruki Murakami
So the fact that I'm me and no one else is one of my greatest assets. Emotional hurt is the price a person has to pay in order to be independent.
~ Haruki Murakami
Body cells replace themselves every month. Even at this very moment. Most everything you think you know about me is nothing more than memories.
~ Haruki Murakami
Things outside you are projections of what's inside you, and what's inside you is a projection of what's outside. So when you step into the labyrinth outside you, at the same time you're stepping into the labyrinth inside.
~ Haruki Murakami
A person learns how to love himself through the simple acts of loving and being loved by someone else.
~ Haruki Murakami
The journey I'm taking is inside me. Just like blood travels down veins, what I'm seeing is my inner self and what seems threatening is just the echo of the fear in my heart.
~ Haruki Murakami
I didn't feel like I was in my own body; my body was just a lonely, temporary container I happened to be borrowing.
~ Haruki Murakami
It doesn't matter how old I get, but as long as I continue to live I'll always discover something new about myself.
~ Haruki Murakami
This person, this self, this me, finally, was made somewhere else. Everything had come from somewhere else, and it would all go somewhere else. I was nothing but a pathway for the person known as me.
~ Haruki Murakami
Sometimes I feel like a caretaker of a museum -- a huge, empty museum where no one ever comes, and I'm watching over it for no one but myself.
~ Haruki Murakami
What I was chasing in circles must have been the tail of the darkness inside me.
~ Haruki Murakami
Let's say you are an empty vessel. So what? What's wrong with that?" Eri said. "You're still a wonderful, attractive vessel. And really, does anybody know who they are? So why not be a completely beautiful vessel? The kind people feel good about, the kind people want to entrust with precious belongings.
~ Haruki Murakami
There is nothing in this world that never takes a step outside a person's heart.
~ Haruki Murakami
The fact that I'm me and no one else is one of my greatest assets. Emotional hurt is the price a person has to pay in order to be independent.
~ Haruki Murakami
People have their own reasons for dying. It might look simple, but it never is. It's just like a rock. What's above ground is only a small part of it. But if you start pulling, it keeps coming and coming. The human mind dwells deep in darkness. Only the person himself knows the real reason, and maybe not even then.
~ Haruki Murakami
It's just a feeling I have. What you see with your eyes is not necessarily real. My enemy is, among other things, the me inside me.
~ Haruki Murakami
Nobody's easier to fool, than the person who is convinced that he is right.
~ Haruki Murakami
How can the mind be so imperfect? she says with a smile. I look at my hands. Bathed in the moonlight, they seem like statues, proportioned to no purpose. It may well be imperfect, I say, but it leaves traces. And we can follow those traces, like footsteps in the snow. Where do the lead? To oneself, I answer. That's where the mind is. Without the mind, nothing leads anywhere. I look up. The winter moon is brilliant, over the Town, above the Wall. Not one thing is your fault, I comfort her.
~ Haruki Murakami
You can hide memories, but you can't erase the history that produced them." Sara looked directly into his eyes. "If nothing else, you need to remember that. You can't erase history, or change it. It would be like destroying yourself.
~ Haruki Murakami