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Quotes About Etiquette

Courtesty and cordiality are not only not the same, but they are incompatible. Why so? Courtesy is an effort, and cordiality is free.
~ Anthony Trollope
As a general rule, it is highly desirable that ladies should keep their temper: a woman when she storms always makes herself ugly, and usually ridiculous also. There is nothing so odious to man as a virago. Though Theseus loved an Amazon, he showed his love but roughly, and from the time of Theseus downward, no man ever wished to have his wife remarkable rather for forward prowess than retiring gentleness. A low voice is an excellent thing in woman.
~ Anthony Trollope
Do they sit altogether mostly all the morning?" "I fancy they do." "I suppose there's some way of dividing them. They tell me you know all about women. If you want to get one to yourself, how do you manage it?
~ Anthony Trollope
We must not be philosophical before her. Mamma, Major Grantly has — skedaddled.
~ Anthony Trollope
Morning parties, as a rule, are failures. People never know how to get away from them gracefully.
~ Anthony Trollope
that we must carry ourselves with some increased external dignity. The world is bewigging itself, and we must buy a bigger wig than any we have got, in order to confront the world with proper self-respect. Turveydrop and deportment will suffice for us against any odds.
~ Anthony Trollope
Mr. Turveydrop, the great professor of deportment, has done much
~ Anthony Trollope
No, Mr Cheesacre; certainly not. For all our sakes, I should decline. But if you were married—" "You are always wanting to marry me, Mrs Greenow.
~ Anthony Trollope
Your brother has married a lady, and my daughter has married a gentleman. Yes; George is a great ass; in some respects the greatest ass I know; but he is a gentleman. Perhaps if you have anything else that you wish to say you will do me the honour of sitting down.
~ Anthony Trollope
Whereupon not only did Isabel enter the room, but at the same time Mrs. Boncassen most discreetly left it. It must be confessed that American mothers are not afraid of their daughters.
~ Anthony Trollope
Young people of rank ought to wear nice things
~ Anthony Trollope
A man who is a gentleman in his cups may be trusted to be a gentleman at all times.
~ Anthony Trollope
Each lady was disposed to get as much and to give as little as possible —
~ Anthony Trollope
A man owes it to his country, to his friends, even to his acquaintance, that he shall not be known to be going about wanting a dinner, with never a coin in his pocket.
~ Anthony Trollope
Then John Morton made up his mind that he would never ask another American Senator to his house.
~ Anthony Trollope
In what I do I may appear to be interfering with you, and I hope you will forgive me for doing so.
~ Anthony Trollope
CHAPTER XX THERE ARE CONVENANCES
~ Anthony Trollope
I am not sure of that. She has no conversation, you see; not a word. She has been sitting there with Lord Dumbello at her elbow for the last hour, and yet she has hardly opened her mouth three times.
~ Anthony Trollope
He had my-Lorded his young friend at first, and now brought out the name with a hesitating twang, which the young nobleman appreciated. But then the young nobleman was quite aware that the Major was a friend for club purposes, and sporting purposes, and not for home use.
~ Anthony Trollope
Prince James was duly christened according to the full Catholic rite, except that the queen refused to let the priest spit in his mouth as the custom then was, saying according to a later story, that she was not going to have 'a pocky priest' spitting in her child's mouth.
~ Antonia Fraser
It is unbecoming for young men to utter maxims.
~ Aristotle
I can't have you making tea for me. It's not decent.
~ Arnold Bennett
Even the few serious crimes that did occur received no particular attention in the news. For well-bred people do not, after all, care to read about the social gaffes of others.
~ Arthur C. Clarke
Martin's one of the nicest fellows you could meet, as long as you don't do it too often.
~ Arthur C. Clarke