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Quotes About Silence

The speech we hear is an indication of that which we don't hear. It is a necessary avoidance, a violent, sly, and anguished or mocking smoke screen which keeps the other in its true place. When true silence falls we are left with echo but are nearer nakedness. One way of looking at speech is to say that it is a constant stratagem to cover nakedness.
~ Harold Pinter
You are in no man's land. Which never moves, which never changes, which never grows older, but remains forever, icy and silent.
~ Harold Pinter
Let us resolve: First, to attain the grace of silence; second, to deem all fault finding that does no good a sin; third, to practice the grade and virtue of praise.
~ Harriet Beecher Stowe
Scenes of blood and cruelty are shocking to our ear and heart. What man has nerve to do, man has not nerve to hear. What brother-man and brother-Christian must suffer, cannot be told us, even in our secret chamber, it so harrows the soul! And yet, oh my country! these things are done under the shadow of thy laws! O, Christ! thy church sees them, almost in silence!
~ Harriet Beecher Stowe
No tear dropped over that pillow; in such straits as these, the heart has no tears to give,--it drops only blood, bleeding itself away in silence.
~ Harriet Beecher Stowe
It is the last triumph of affection and magnanimity, when a loving heart can respect that suffering silence of its beloved, and allow that lonely liberty in which only some natures can find comfort.
~ Harriet Beecher Stowe
the heart has no tears to give,--it drops only blood, bleeding itself away in silence.
~ Harriet Beecher Stowe
It was completely still, not a sound within or outside. As if it was just the two of them, nothing more in the world, in this room alone.
~ Harriet Evans
Their marriage was based on silence these days. More and more. What they didn't say was everything, and what they did, inconsequential.
~ Harriet Evans
All the assertiveness training and communication skills in the world can't prevent a relationship from becoming fertile ground for silence and stonewalling, or for anger and frustration, or for just plain hard times. No book or expert can protect us from the range of painful emotions that make us human. We can influence the other person through our words and silence, but we can never control the outcome. That said, what we can
~ Harriet Lerner
A marital therapist recently teased me, "Are you writing another book to help women speak up? I'm trying to help my clients be quiet." Then she said more seriously, "Why do people think they have to tell each other everything they feel?
~ Harriet Lerner
You may feel like a coward when your anxiety pushes you to choose silence over speech, or restraint over action. Yet in many circumstances, silence and restraint are the wiser, more courageous choices.
~ Harriet Lerner
Our first family: where we learned (not) to speak.
~ Harriet Lerner, Ph.D.
Every prospect hopes you will heed the old New England proverb: "Don't talk unless you can improve the silence.
~ Harry Beckwith
Jackson uses the silence to give me a bunch of stapled sheets. The title page says: Torture Survivors' Handbook. Information on Support and Resources for Torture Survivors in the UK. "This thing is mostly aimed at people coming here from abroad. But you should read it. And use it." I hold the book in my hands. I say, "They got the apostrophe in the right place. That's good.
~ Harry Bingham
but silence is frightening to the frightened
~ Harry Bingham
Loneliness is never more cruel than when it is felt in close proximity to someone who has ceased to communicate. — Germaine Greer
~ Harry Browne
Now sometimes words can serve me well Sometimes words can go to hell For all that they do
~ Harry Chapin
Those are Christians that are being slaughtered, and nobody in the Christian world lifts a finger or even protests, not the Pope, not your World Council of Churches, not the Christian countries. Only the damn Jews. It's downright embarrassing. No wonder that no one supports them in the UN. That's the point I was making. They make everybody uncomfortable, so everybody votes against them.
~ Harry Kemelman
My mind was on a silent hillside, in a land far away, and gods who should be left to sleep. *
~ Harry McCallion
That question is too good to spoil with an answer.
~ Harry Mulisch
You could chat with anyone; being silent together without it becoming embarrassing was a lot rarer.
~ Harry Mulisch
Gelukkig is het geschrevene iets dat hoorbaar is zonder gehoord te hoeven worden. Zelfs het bescheidenste woordje dat ik neerschrijf, het woordje "zwijgen" bijvoorbeeld, overstemt het inferno in die stenen put.
~ Harry Mulisch
Republicans don't like people to talk about depressions. You can hardly blame them for that. You remember the old saying: Don't talk about rope in the house where somebody has been hanged.
~ Harry S. Truman