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Quotes About Understanding

Mr. Lisbon had the feeling that he didn't know who she was, that children were only strangers you agreed to live with.
~ Jeffrey Eugenides
To be inclusive you must accommodate different levels of sophistication.
~ Jeffrey Eugenides
It seemed like we were supposed to feel sorry for everything that ever happened, ever.
~ Jeffrey Eugenides
Mitchell had answered that, as far as he understood them, mystical experiences were significant only to the extent that they changed a person's conception of reality, and if that changed conception led to a change in behavior and action, a loss of ego.
~ Jeffrey Eugenides
At that moment Mr. Lisbon had the feeling that he didn't know who she was, that children were only strangers you agreed to live with, and he reached out in order to meet her for the first time.
~ Jeffrey Eugenides
Who are you, anyway? Just someone who knows, from personal experience, how attractive it can be to think you can save somebody else by loving them. I could have sworn we just met, Madeleine said. And that you don't know anything about me. Henry stood up. With a slightly offended air but undiminished confidence, he said, People save themselves. He left her with that to think about.
~ Jeffrey Eugenides
Shit. What have kids got to be worried about now? If they want trouble, they should go live in Bangladesh.
~ Jeffrey Eugenides
Some people need a picture. Any great religion has to be inclusive. And to be inclusive you have to accommodate different levels of sophistication.
~ Jeffrey Eugenides
Nous savions que les filles étaient nos jumelles, que nous existions tous dans l'espace comme des animaux qui avaient la même peau, et qu'elles savaient tout de nous alors que nous étions incapables de percer leur mystère. Nous savions, enfin, que les filles étaient en réalité des femmes déguisées, qu'elles comprenaient l'amour et même la mort, et que notre boulot se bornait à créer le bruit qui semblait tant les fasciner.
~ Jeffrey Eugenides
Hogy az emberek miért pont ahhoz kötik az életüket, akikhez aztán kötik, azt többnyire épp az érintettek értik a legkevésbé.
~ Jeffrey Eugenides
Find the Bad Guy means how, when you're arguing with your spouse, both people are trying to win the argument. Who didn't close the garage door? Who left the Bigfoot hair clump in the shower drain? What you have to realize, as a couple, is that there is no bad guy. You can't win an argument when you're married. Because if you win, your spouse loses, and resents losing, and then you lose, too, pretty much.
~ Jeffrey Eugenides
Though she carried on few extended conversations, we got an idea of her state of mind from the little that got back to us of the little she said.
~ Jeffrey Eugenides
Obviously, doctor, you've never been a thirteen year-old girl.
~ Jeffrey Eugenides
All wisdom ends in paradox
~ Jeffrey Eugenides
We had never known her. They brought us here to find that out.
~ Jeffrey Eugenides
Emotions, in my experience, aren't covered by single words. I don't believe in sadness, joy, or regret. Maybe the best proof that the language is patriarchal is that it oversimplifies feeling.
~ Jeffrey Eugenides
Emotions, in my experience, aren't covered by single words. I don't believe in "sadness," "joy," or "regret." Maybe the best proof that the language is patriarchal is that it oversimplifies feeling. I'd like to have at my disposal complicated hybrid emotions, Germanic train-car constructions like, say, "the happiness that attends disaster." Or: "the disappointment of sleeping with one's fantasy.
~ Jeffrey Eugenides
Miért tanulunk történelmet? Azért, hogy megértsük a jelent vagy azért, hogy megússzuk?
~ Jeffrey Eugenides
We were happy when Joe the Retard showed up. He arrived on his mother's arm, wearing his baggy Bermuda shorts and his blue baseball cap, and as usual he was grinning with the face he shared with every other mongoloid.
~ Jeffrey Eugenides
Mas talvez as Pulseiras de Pingentes soubessem mais da vida do que eu. Desde muito cedo compreendiam que o mundo dava pouco valor aos livros, e por isso não gastavam seu tempo com eles. Ao passo que eu, até hoje, persisto na crença de que essas manchas pretas sobre papel branco têm a maior importância, e que, se seguir escrevendo, talvez consiga capturar num pote o arco-íris da consciência.
~ Jeffrey Eugenides
Én vagyok a pont egy összetett mondat végén, amely mondat hosszú-hosszú évekkel ezelÅ'tt, egy másik nyelven kezdÅ'dött, és amelyet az elejétÅ'l kell olvasni, hogy érteni lehessen a végét – azt, amikor megérkeztem én.
~ Jeffrey Eugenides
obviously, dr, she said, you've never been a thirteen-year-old girl.
~ Jeffrey Eugenides
What's the reason for studying history? To understand the present or avoid it?
~ Jeffrey Eugenides
Certain "advanced" girls understood. Others, like me, thought: knife wound, bear attack.
~ Jeffrey Eugenides