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Quotes About Selflessness

Hope involves giving a great deal of yourself away.
~ Barbara Kingsolver
If you live only for yourself, dying is an especially scary proposition.
~ Barry Eisler
It's a strange thing, having a child," he said. "It completely alters your most fundamental priorities. When my eldest daughter was born, I realized I would do anything—anything—to protect her. If I had to set myself on fire to save her from something, I would do it with the utmost relief and gratitude. It's quite a thing, quite a privilege, to care about someone so much that the measure of the worth of your own life is changed by it.
~ Barry Eisler
Ginseng hunters refer to the plant as chang-diang shen, "the root of lightning," because it is believed that it appears only on the spot where a small mountain spring has been dried up by a lightning bolt. After a life of three hundred years the green juice turns white and the plant acquires a soul. It is then able to take on human form, but it never becomes truly human because ginseng does not know the meaning of selfishness.
~ Barry Hughart
Men of character continued to sail to their death for men of greed.
~ Barry Lopez
the sine qua non of a stable human society, they had to understand that this was not possible except in the hands of fully mature people, people, in the modern idiom, who had "gotten over themselves.
~ Barry Lopez
work of supererogation
~ Bart D. Ehrman
I love you, Beverly . . . just let me have that. You can have Bill, or the world, or whatever you need. Just let me have that, let me go on loving you, and I guess it'll be enough.
~ Stephen King
When being loving becomes even more important than being loved, true devotion is experienced. A loving that does not depend on getting what we want but on offering what the world and our hearts cry out for.
~ Stephen Levine
To become Kuan Yin is to recognize the extreme toil and commitment that brings fruition. Her accomplishment not bestowed on her by some celestial prize committee, Zeus, or the Holy Ghost, but by the hard-earned forgoing of all earthly pleasure, to complete what Buddha called "the work to be done.
~ Stephen Levine
A humble person is more concerned about what is right than about being right, about acting on good ideas than having the ideas, about embracing new truth than defending outdated position, about building the team than exalting self, about recognizing contribution than being recognized for making it.
~ Stephen M.R. Covey
Perhaps a sense of possessing needs to come to come before a sense of genuine sharing.
~ Stephen R. Covey
Happiness - in part at least - the fruit of the desire and ability to sacrifice waht we want for what we want eventually
~ Stephen R. Covey
Proactive people make love a verb. Love is something you do: the sacrifices you make, the giving of self, like a mother bringing a newborn into the world... Love is a value that is actualized through loving actions. Proactive people subordinate feeling to values. Love, the feeling, can be recaptured.
~ Stephen R. Covey
Could synergy not create a new script for the next generation—one that is more geared to service and contribution, and is less protective, less adversarial, less selfish; one that is more open, more trusting, more giving, and is less defensive, protective, and political; one that is more loving, more caring, and is less possessive and judgmental?
~ Stephen R. Covey
It is more noble to give yourself completely to one individual than to labor diligently for the salvation of the masses.
~ Stephen R. Covey
Proactive people make love a verb. Love is something you do: the sacrifices you make, the giving of self, like a mother bringing a newborn into the world.
~ Stephen R. Covey
Perhaps a sense of possessing needs to come before a sense of genuine sharing.
~ Stephen R. Covey
true love is found in the affirmation of another person's identity and stewardship, in seeking his or her growth and good, not on interpreting all the other person's responses in terms of one's own needs, hungers, or desires.
~ Stephen R. Covey
When two people in a marriage are more concerned about getting the golden eggs, the benefits, than they are in preserving the relationship that makes them possible, they often become insensitive and inconsiderate, reflecting the little kindnesses and courtesies so important to a deep relationship. They begin to use control leavers to manipulate each other, to focus on their own needs, to justify their own position and look for evidence to show the wrongness of the other person
~ Stephen R. Covey
humility is the mother of all virtues
~ Stephen R. Covey
We not me. True greatness will be achieved through the abundant mind that works selflessly, with mutual respect, and for a mutual benefit.
~ Stephen R. Covey
life is a mission and not a career," and that we could find true happiness by serving others.
~ Stephen R. Covey
newborn into the world. If you want to study love, study those who sacrifice for others, even for people who offend or do not love in return.
~ Stephen R. Covey