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Quotes About Time

When our time is limited and we are uncertain about how best to serve our priorities, we are forced to deal with the fact that both the experiencing self and the remembering self matter. We do not want to endure long pain and short pleasure. Yet certain pleasures can make enduring suffering worthwhile. The peaks are important, and so is the ending.
~ Atul Gawande
So today, with our average life span in much of the world climbing past eighty years, we are already oddities living well beyond our appointed time.
~ Atul Gawande
There's no escaping the tragedy of life, which is that we are all aging from the day we are born. One may even come to understand and accept this fact.
~ Atul Gawande
At home, you decide how you spend your time, how you share your space, and how you manage your possessions. Away from home, you don't. This
~ Atul Gawande
Thirteen minutes after I took him off the ventilator
~ Atul Gawande
pay doctors to give chemotherapy and to do surgery but not to take the time required to sort out when to do so is unwise.
~ Atul Gawande
The key word in her mind was home. Home is the one place where your own priorities hold sway. At home, you decide how you spend your time, how you share your space, and how you manage your possessions. Away from home, you don't. This loss of freedom was what people like Lou Sanders and Wilson's mother, Jessie, dreaded.
~ Atul Gawande
The burdens for today's caregiver have actually increased from what they would have been a century ago.
~ Atul Gawande
Several months passed before I saw Vince Caselli again.
~ Atul Gawande
Few people have these conversations, and there is good reason for anyone to dread them. They can unleash difficult emotions. People can become angry or overwhelmed. Handled poorly, the conversations can cost a person's trust. Handled well, they can take real time. I spoke to an oncologist who told me about a
~ Atul Gawande
There's no escaping the tragedy of life, which is that we are all aging from the day we are born.
~ Atul Gawande
People seemed to have two different selves—an experiencing self who endures every moment equally and a remembering self who gives almost all the weight of judgment afterward to two single points in time, the worst moment and the last one. The remembering
~ Atul Gawande
Studies find that as people grow older they interact with fewer people and concentrate more on spending time with family and established friends. They focus on being rather than doing and on the present more than the future.
~ Atul Gawande
To avoid fatigue and inattention, he did his work over the course of a week
~ Atul Gawande
I wanted to write in my journal but couldn't bring myself to. There are so many shades to what passed through me in those days. And I would shrink from committing myself to paper because the light would change before the word was out, the ink was dry.
~ Audre Lorde
Tenses are a way of ordering the chaos around time.
~ Audre Lorde
Life is very short and what we have to do must be done in the now.
~ Audre Lorde
I respect the time I spend each day treating my body, and I consider it part of my political work. It is possible to have some conscious input into our physical processes–not expecting the impossible, but allowing for the unexpected–a kind of training in self-love and physical resistance.
~ Audre Lorde
Emily, who loved her best friend so much she still cannot listen to the records they once enjoyed together, and it is five years already since her friend died.
~ Audre Lorde
Guilt is only another way of avoiding informed action, of buying time out of the pressing need to make clear choices, out of the approaching storm that can feed the earth as well as bend the trees.
~ Audre Lorde
I want to write down everything I know about being afraid, but I'd probably never have enough time to write anything else.
~ Audre Lorde
Living a self-conscious life, under the pressure of time, I work with the consciousness of death at my shoulder, not constantly, but often enough to leave a mark upon all my life's decisions and actions. And it does not matter whether this death comes next week or thirty years from now, this consciousness gives my life another breadth. It helps shape the words I speak, the way I love, my politics of action, the strength of my vision and purpose, the depth of my appreciation of living.
~ Audre Lorde
Knowing that time is short is important. Knowing to make the best use of it you can, that's important. Letting those around you know you love them. Because you never know when you'll have to say good-bye.
~ Audrey Couloumbis
Grief stays with a person for a long time.
~ Audrey Couloumbis