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Quotes About Connection

When I am touched, I am touched only as the person I am behind all the theatrical masks, but at the same time I am changed from within-and whoever touches me is touched as well. We do not touch by design. Indeed, all designs are shattered by touching. Whoever touches and whoever is touched cannot but be surprised. (The unpredictability of this phenomenon is reflected in our reference to the insane as "touched.")
~ James P. Carse
We can be moved only by way of our veils. We are touched through our veils.
~ James P. Carse
In their sexual play they suffer others, allow them to be as they are. Suffering others, they open themselves. Open, they learn both about others and about themselves. Learning, they grow. What they learn is not about sexuality, but how to be more concretely and originally themselves, to be the geniuses of their own actions, to be whole.
~ James P. Carse
Moving therefore from an original center, the sexual engagements of infinite players have no standards, no ideals, no marks of success or failure. Neither orgasm nor conception is a goal in their play, although either may be part of the play.
~ James P. Carse
Infinite sexuality does not focus its attention on certain parts or regions of the body. Infinite lovers have no "private parts." They do not regard their bodies as having secret zones that can be exposed or made accesible to others for special favors. It is not their bodies but their persons they make accesible to others.
~ James P. Carse
Since a culture is not anything persons do, but anything they do with each other, we may say that a culture comes into being whenever persons choose to be a people. It is as a people that they arrange their rules with each other, their moralities, their modes of communication.
~ James P. Carse
Each person whose horizon is affected by the Renaissance affects the horizon of the Renaissance in turn.
~ James P. Carse
Be kind to everyone you meet, because we're all battling something.
~ James P. Owen
You looove me. (holds out arms) You love me this much.
~ James Patterson
In the Christian world view, having bodies is not a barrier to spirituality but how we live out our spirituality in a physical world.
~ James Paul
human intelligence and creativity, today more than ever, are tied to connecting—synchronizing—people, tools, texts, digital and social media, virtual spaces, and real spaces in the right ways, in ways that make us Minds and not just minds, but also better people in a better world.
~ James Paul Gee
Red Cap gave my shoulder a squeeze . I felt like an orange. "If you're trying to get juice out of me," I said, "it's not going to work.
~ James Preller
If you get lonesome enough, Carrie knew, you'll even call the police.
~ James Purdy
As anyone who has ever read a used book knows, nothing exposes readers to quite such a high degree of nakedness as the underlinings and marginalia they live behind...
~ James R. Gaines
He climbed through the vast stillness, alone...and yet somehow, he knew, no longer alone. For now his two fathers climbed with him.
~ James Ramsey Ullman
I don't think that anything happens by coincidence... No one is here by accident... Everyone who crosses our path has a message for us. Otherwise they would have taken another path, or left earlier or later. The fact that these people are here means that they are here for some reason"...
~ James Redfield
When we dislike someone, or feel threatened by someone, the natural tendency is to focus on something we dislike about the person, something that irritates us. Unfortunately, when we do this--instead of seeing the deeper beauty of the person and giving them energy--we take energy away and actually do them harm. All they know is that they suddenly feel less beautiful and less confident, and it is because we sapped their energy.
~ James Redfield
We humans have always sought to increase our personal energy in the only manner we have known, by seeking to psychologically steal it from the others--an unconscious competition that underlies all human conflict in the world.
~ James Redfield
Sexual union is a holy moment in which a part of Heaven flows into the Earth.
~ James Redfield
sudden, spontaneous eye contact is a sign that two people should talk.
~ James Redfield
This is [her] soul group.' What do you mean?' It's a group of souls with whom she resonates closely.
~ James Redfield
loving and energizing others is the best possible thing we can do for ourselves.
~ James Redfield
If one can connect and build up enough energy, then coincidental events begin to happen consistently.
~ James Redfield
In reality, there are no enemies; we're all souls in growth, waking up
~ James Redfield