Quotes About Conflict

I think that NATO is itself a war criminal.

I was brought up in the War. I was an adolescent in the Second World War. And I did witness in London a great deal of the Blitz.

The fierce pride I had in my being was hurt by the slow disintegration of his own.

Let me suggest that at the core of Jewish God-talk is the unshakable conviction that God's most dominant attribute is His commitment to justice rather than power. Earthly kings lust for power, for total control, and are prepared to sacrifice justice, to hurt innocent people, to hold on to power. But as far as the God of Israel is concerned, in a conflict between justice and power, justice will prevail. God will not do wrong. That more than anything gives Job reason to hope. A

Well, I think there is always a conflict between the sexes. Women want to dominate men, but men shouldn't let them do that.

I've buried all the hatchets. But I know where I've buried them and I can dig them up again if necessary.

Conflict can and should be handled constructively; when it is, relationships benefit. Conflict avoidance is *not* the hallmark of a good relationship. On the contrary, it is a symptom of serious problems and of poor communication.

Abraham Lincoln. When he met Stowe, it is claimed that he said, "So you're the little woman that started this great war!

He had been able to repress every disrespectful word; but the flashing eye, the gloomy and troubled brow, were part of a natural language that could not be repressed,-- indubitable signs, which showed too plainly that the man could not become a thing.

While politicians contend, and men are swerved this way and that by conflicting tides of interest and passion, the great cause of human liberty is in the hands of one...who shall not fail nor be discouraged...

She thought she was a sensible girl. But some kind of love had taken hold of her and refused to let her go, and it wasn't a happy, easy, joyful thing, it had her in a vice-like grip.

What she didn't say was: "Can I punch both your sisters?" "How do you cope with this, all the time?" "Why can't it be the two of us, like it was before?" And, "Do you realize I've fallen for you?

The world of academia was like a fourteenth-century Florence, riven with internecine strife, internal politics and wordless betrayal.

I feel calmed and relieved when my husband knocks at my study door in the middle of a fight, puts his arms around me, and says, "I love you. This is stupid. Let's just drop it." Like two kids in the sandbox, we're suddenly light and playful again.

Neden sorunlar?m?z? ve seçeneklerimizi belirleyip konumumuzu aç?kl??a kavuÅŸturmak yerine, kronik kavgac? ve ÅŸikayetçi kiÅŸiler oluyoruz? Hay?r, kad?nlar kurban edilmiÅŸ, altta kalm?? konumlar?ndan mazoÅŸist bir zevk alm?yorlar. Tam tersine; tahterevalli evliliÄŸinin alt ucunda oturan kad?n, pes etme ve özveride bulunma düzeyiyle doÄŸru orant?l? bir öfke biriktiriyor içinde.

If the other person has pushed through his or her discomfort to do the right thing and apologize, we can push through our discomfort and say, "Thanks for the apology." It's important to resist the temptation to cancel the effort at repair that a genuine apology is.

Venting anger may serve to maintain, and even rigidify, the old rules and patterns in a relationship, thus ensuring that change does not occur.

It is the intensity of our reactions toward another person's problem that ensures not only the escalation but also the continuation of the problem itself.

But fibbing, including "polite" or social lies, can become part of the daily fabric of living—a way of avoiding conflict and complication that becomes so habitual we fail to notice even the fact of it and its imperceptible erosion of our integrity and our relationships.

Keep the lines of communication open in the family without inviting others to blame or take sides in your battles. It's

When we talk about a person being a problem, rather than directly to the person, we add to the underground anxiety and make it harder for the talked-about person to behave with confidence and competence.

It is amazing how frequently we march off to battle without knowing what the war is all about.

Kavga etmek ve suçlamak kimi zaman, bir yöne ya da diÄŸerine doÄŸru ad?m atmaya haz?r olmad???m?z zamanlarda, hem statükoyu korumak hem de statükoya baÅŸkald?rmak amac?yla kulland???m?z bir yoldur.

EÄŸer öfkemizi, giriÅŸtiÄŸimiz tüm önemli iliÅŸkilerde kendimizi aç?kça tan?mlamak için kullanmaz -ve duygular?m?zla olduklar? gibi baÅŸa ç?kmazsak- bu sorumluluÄŸu bizim yerimize üstlenecek baÅŸka birisi olmayacakt?r.