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Quotes About Conflict

Are we not all flung into the world for no other purpose than to hate each other, and so to torture ourselves and one another?
~ Leo Tolstoy
On the twelfth of June, the forces of Western Europe crossed the borders of Russia, and war began--that is, an event took place contrary to human reason and to the whole of human nature.
~ Leo Tolstoy
And so there was no single cause for war, but it happened simply because it had to happen
~ Leo Tolstoy
They talked about peace, but did not believe in its possibility.
~ Leo Tolstoy
She began to wish he would die; yet she did not want him to die because then his salary would cease. And this irritated her against him still more. She considered herself dreadfully unhappy just because not even his death could save her,
~ Leo Tolstoy
Love them that hate you, but you can't love those you hate.
~ Leo Tolstoy
He wanted and needed their love, but felt none towards them. He now had neither love nor humility nor purity
~ Leo Tolstoy
But when, as is most often the case, the husband and wife accept the external obligation to live together all their lives and have, by the second month, come to loathe the sight of each other, want to get divorced and yet go on living together, it usually ends in that terrible hell that drives them to drink, makes them shoot themselves, kill and poison each other
~ Leo Tolstoy
War is not a polite recreation but the vilest thing in life, and we ought to understand that and not play at war. Our attitude towards the fearful necessity of war ought to be stern. It boils down to this: we should have done with humbug, and let war be war and not a game. Otherwise, war is a favourite pastime of the idle and frivolous...
~ Leo Tolstoy
Moreover, during his wife's confinement, something had happened that seemed extraordinary to him. He, an unbeliever, had fallen into praying, and at the moment he prayed, he believed. But that moment had passed, and he could not make his state of mind at that moment fit into the rest of his life.
~ Leo Tolstoy
If no one fought except on his own conviction, there would be no wars," he said.
~ Leo Tolstoy
War is not courtesy but the most horrible thing in life; and we ought to understand that and not play at war. We ought to accept this terrible necessity sternly and seriously. It all lies in that: get rid of falsehood and let war be war and not a game. As it is now, war is the favorite pastime of the idle and frivolous. The military calling is the most highly honored.
~ Leo Tolstoy
We exchanged disagreeable remarks. The impression of this first quarrel was terrible. I say quarrel, but the term is inexact. It was the sudden discovery of the abyss that had been dug between us.
~ Leo Tolstoy
Love them that hate you, but you can't love them whom you hate.
~ Leo Tolstoy
Well, what is that to me? I can't see her!" she cried.
~ Leo Tolstoy
Never to the end of his life could he understand goodness, beauty, or truth, or the significance of his actions which were too contrary to goodness and truth, too remote from everything human, for him ever to be able to grasp their meaning. He could not disavow his actions, belauded as they were by half the world, and so he had to repudiate truth, goodness, and all humanity.
~ Leo Tolstoy
It's really ludicrous; her object is doing good; she a Christian, yet she's always angry; and she always has enemies, and always enemies in the name of Christianity and doing good.
~ Leo Tolstoy
The wife did not leave her own room, the husband had not been at home for three days. The children ran wild all over the house; the English governess quarreled with the housekeeper, and wrote
~ Leo Tolstoy
My tongue is my enemy. Brothers
~ Leo Tolstoy
In order not to give myself up to the desire to kill him on the spot, I felt compelled to treat him cordially.
~ Leo Tolstoy
Darya Alexandrovna made no reply. She suddenly felt that she had got far away from Anna; that there lay between them a barrier of questions on which they could never agree, and about which it was better not to speak.
~ Leo Tolstoy
In order to undertake anything in family life, it is necessary that there be either complete discord between the spouses or loving harmony. But when the relations between spouses are uncertain and there is neither the one nor the other, nothing can be undertaken.
~ Leo Tolstoy
The struggle for existence and hatred are the only things that unite people.
~ Leo Tolstoy
As his father saw it, he did not want to learn what was taught. But in fact, he could not learn it. He could not, because there were demands in his soul that were more exacting for him than those imposed by his father and the pedagogue. These demands were conflicting, and he fought openly with his educators.
~ Leo Tolstoy