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Quotes About Conflict

Waffen-SS prisoners were conspicuous by their rarity, either because of their determination to go down fighting, or from being shot on sight by their captors. One
~ Antony Beevor
How can he be so cruel to me at times—and then like this? she thought. And again her awakening perceptions gave her the answer. He would hurt her himself, take pleasure in doing so, but he would not allow her to be injured by anyone or anything else
~ Anya Seton
most unhappiness springs from conflict or grief
~ Anya Seton
My lord - the Duke of Lancaster does not wed his paramour, and one of common stock - how could the King countenance this? Well, he has, said John dryly. Richard at present would countenance far more than that to please his eldest uncle and annoy his youngest one.
~ Anya Seton
Mom and I argued about every other dish on the menu. But on this we agreed: without kulebiaka, there could be no proper Silver Age Moscow repast.
~ Anya von Bremzen
7. In the box, we invite mutual mistreatment and obtain mutual justification. We collude in giving each other reason to stay in the box.
~ Arbinger Institute
And that is, when I'm in the box, I need people to cause trouble for me — I actually need problems.
~ Arbinger Institute
we and our enemies are perfect for each other. Each of us gives the other reason never to have to change.
~ Arbinger Institute
In summary, then, the myriad ways in which people have used this book and its ideas fall within five broad areas of application: (1) applicant screening and hiring, (2) leadership and team building, (3) conflict resolution, (4) accountability transformation, and (5) personal growth and development.
~ Arbinger Institute
Exactly. My heart wouldn't have been at peace even though I was being outwardly helpful, which suggests a betrayal of my original desire to help.
~ Arbinger Institute
I carried a heart at war—a heart at war with others, myself, and the world. I had been using my stuttering as a weapon in that war and had gotten myself into a place where I was seeing and feeling crookedly and self-justifyingly. That was my problem.
~ Arbinger Institute
The reason this book has been so instrumental in helping people to resolve conflict is that it opens readers to how they have helped to create the very problems they have attributed to others. This is the essence of the self-deception solution— discovering how each of us has the problem of not knowing we have a problem. This is the realization that makes conflict resolution possible.
~ Arbinger Institute
Lasting solutions to the battles in our workplaces, homes, and battlefields will come only as we end the war in our souls.
~ Arbinger Institute
Conflict is ubiquitous. Workplaces, homes, and communities are riddled with it. The trouble is, not nearly enough people understand what to do about it. The 2013 Executive Coaching Survey published by Stanford University, for example, reveals that company CEOs feel a greater need to improve their conflict management skills than skills of any other type.
~ Arbinger Institute
Helpful skills and techniques aren't very helpful if they're done in the box. They just provide people with more-sophisticated ways to blame.
~ Arbinger Institute
chest—I could hear him denigrating Obama at the top of his lungs, which seemed to make Mary only slightly less uncomfortable than it made me. A few weeks before the trip, she said, when she was in the shower, seething about something he'd done, the words I chose him for you came up on the holy computer screen in her mind. What
~ Ariel Levy
What can you answer? Now be careful, don't arouse my spite, Or with my slipper I'll take you napping, faces slapping Left and right.
~ Aristophanes
MEN Ah cursed drab, what have you brought this water for? WOMEN What is your fire for then, you smelly corpse? Yourself to burn?
~ Aristophanes
HOROVO?A MUŠKOG HORA: Ni sa kojom zverkom no sa ženom nije teži boj, nit je oganj tako nit je panter besan ijedan. HOROVO?A ŽENSKOG HORA: To ti znadeš, al opet, r?o, sa mnom ratuješ, a ja verna mogla bih ti biti prijateljica?
~ Aristophanes
We make war that we may live in peace.
~ Aristotle
PLOT is CHARACTER revealed by ACTION.
~ Aristotle
Bad people...are in conflict with themselves; they desire one thing and will another, like the incontinent who choose harmful pleasures instead of what they themselves believe to be good.
~ Aristotle
We give up leisure in order that we may have leisure, just as we go to war in order that we may have peace.
~ Aristotle
Evil brings men together.
~ Aristotle