Quotes About Clarity

If the Light and the Dark were so absolute, why couldn't they give her absolute answers? Why did everything have to be so confused?

Number 1: I calls 'em like I see 'em. Number 2: I calls 'em the way they are. Number 3: They ain't nothing till I calls

Just because it makes no sense doesn't mean it's not good advice.

We have to be what we are, so we don't have to present a false image. If you love me the way I am, "Okay, take me." If you don't love me the way I am, "Okay, bye-bye. Find someone else." It may sound harsh, but this kind of communication means the personal agreements we make with others are clear and impeccable.

We don't see the truth because we are blind. What blinds us are all those false beliefs we have in our mind. We have the need to be right and to make others wrong. We trust what we believe, and our beliefs set us up for suffering.

The problem with making assumptions is that we believe they are the truth. We could swear they are real.

Making assumptions in our relationships is really asking for problems. Often we make the assumption that our partners know what we think and that we don't have to say what we want. We assume they are going to do what we want, because they know us so well. If they don't do what we assume they should do, we feel so hurt and say, "You should have known.

Say only what you mean.

Be impeccable with your words

We only see what we want to see, and hear what we want to hear. We don't perceive things the way they are. We have the habit of dreaming with no basis in reality. We literally dream things up in our imaginations. Because we don't understand something, we make an assumption about the meaning, and when the truth comes out, the bubble of our dream pops and we find out it was not what we thought it was at all.

Be Impeccable With Your Word, Don't Take Anything Personally, Don't Make Assumptions, Always Do Your Best.

Making assumptions and then taking them personally is the beginning of hell in this world.

We make an assumption, we misunderstand, we take it personally, and we end up creating a whole big drama for nothing.

It is always better to ask questions than to make an assumption, because assumptions set us up for suffering.

Awareness makes all the difference.

Nuestras emociones actúan como un filtro a través del cual vemos el resto del mundo.

1. Be Impeccable With Your Word Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.

Why not get what you want? Why pretend to make someone fit what she is not? It doesn't mean you don't love her. It means you make a choice and say yes or no, because you love yourself also. You make a choice, and you are responsible for your choices. Then if the choices are not working well, you do not blame yourself. You simply make another choice.

I will be impeccable with my word, I will not take anything personally, I will not make any assumptions, and I am going to do my best.

Be impeccable with your word.

When we really see other people as they are without taking it personally, we can never be hurt by what they say or do. Even

3. Don't Make Assumptions Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life.

THE THIRD AGREEMENT Don't Make Assumptions

The way to keep yourself from making assumptions is to ask questions. Make sure the communication is clear. If you don't understand, ask. Have the courage to ask questions until you are clear as you can be, and even then do not assume you know all there is to know about a given situation.